#fantasyprone

[kurtheavenly]

What does it mean exactly when hundreds or thousands of women think KURT COBAIN (now dead, or then alive) is their TWIN FLAME or TWIN SOUL?

Isn’t it a one & only kind of thing?  Tbh, WHY are most of the women putting out videos on the topic physically unattractive or so/so average on top of that? 

I think it is FAN ENTITLEMENT, escapism and PAIN RELIEF pure and simple.  Also NEW AGE BULLSHIT.  I say fuck their claims and theories. Spend your money on art, life experience and music and respect the deceased.  Let them live in Peace without YOUR or someone else’s selfish PINING.  Tell your delusional friend that the life expression of Kurt Cobain is over and done with. It’s terribly exploitive of them to try and violate his boundaries and spirit.

This blog would love your thoughts...it IS a fascinating study, if nothing else. (*_*)

Explore this topic yourself on YouTube:

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=celebrity+twin+flames+real

Btw, I found this terrifying retro song on Spotify, It was suggested listening when I peeked at a delusional Instagrammer’s publicised  pandemic playlist. She also scoffed at the sketchiness of Aberdeen (WA) much to my intense dislike and disgust.  A local realtor there told her in her comments to STAY AWAY.  (She was under the bridge)

 I imagine Kurt Cobain would  not only dead on hate or pity her but agree. :-D

She was reminiscing on her Seattle area travels to Viretta Park.  Perhaps she IS single again ...and perving up on Kurt again between boyfriends... I wonder what it is like for boyfriends/husbands now, too....

[libranheart]

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[acai27]

Anxiety and Daydreaming

From a 2011 study (Bigelsen and Schupak):

"Despite successful occupational or academic functioning, 88% of participants report current distress regarding their excessive fantasizing activities. A portion of this distress stems from the combined feeling that it takes considerable effort to keep the fantasizing under control and a concern that they are never fully mentally present or in enjoyment of real world tasks and relationships. Another reason for this distress stems from feelings of shame and embarrassment based on the belief that their fantasizing is abnormal and different from the normative daydreaming more typically engaged on by others. This need for secrecy further disengages many of the participants from real world relationships, thereby leaving them feeling even more alone which increases their desire to turn to their imaginary worlds."

Excessive daydreaming is a never ending circle: we may feel anxious in social settings, which increases our desire to dream, but our dreaming becomes a cause of  embarrassment in social settings, which increases our anxiety.