#fatqueer

[ashleyobscuremua]

As a plus size person, I am TIRED of defending the body I've worked so hard to accept and love. I'm tired of being seen as lazy. I'm tired of being seen as "just a pretty face" I'm tired of being seen as unfashionable. I'm tired of being seen as unhealthy. In reality, this is probably the healthiest I've been my entire life. But my body wouldn't tell you that just by looking at it. We need to stop judging others on their outer shells and really start looking at the person inside. Only then, can we move together as a society where all bodies are treated with the respect they deserve 💜 . . . Underwear set from @sheincurve . . . . #effyourbeautystandards #fatqueer #fatpositive #bodypositive #selfconfidence #selflove #loveyourself #loveyourcurves #plussizemodel #fatgoth #tummylove #fupalove (at Toronto, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/CNcdByOAGXB/?igshid=167flpvd64mzc

[333-fml-666]

Fat fall mood. #flannel #savethebees #dexinplacesheshouldntbe #queerpunx #fatqueer #fatbabesincroptops https://www.instagram.com/p/B29UosBBP5g/?igshid=kpk15djjbbhg

[ashleyobscuremua]

2 years ago I took photos that would change my life. I got nude in front of a camera I lacked any kind of confidence in myself, But I was desperate to change how I viewed my body. 2 years later, One of those photos has become a piece of art. My fat body has been immortalized as the very thing that drives my soul. This moment is such a full circle moment for me. To have photos of the body I once hated, used for something so beautiful is such a magical thing. I don't even have the proper words for It just feel amazing Like floating on a glittery cloud. Thank you @aesthetic.erection for this incredible piece. Thank you for seeing something in me 💜 Just thank you so much. 📸 @battle.symphony__ . . . . . #artisticnudeart #aestheticerection #fatandsexy #fatqueer #fatpositive #bodypostive #radicalselflove #mushroomart #selfconfidence #fatbodies #queer (at Toronto, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/CP1rDPBtoTx/?utm_medium=tumblr

[ashleyobscuremua]

There is a huge difference between Body Positivity and Self Love. And it's time people start to understand it. The Body Positive movement started in the 1960s as a Grassroots protest for humans who's bodies were marginalized and not accepted in work places. This included Fat humans, BIPOC humans, Queer humans, and disabled humans. The movement was rooted in social justice to make room for bodies that were deemed "abnormal" by society at that time. Self love on the other hand, It's about loving your skin. It's about accepting yourself as is, and loving it. When you body is already seen as "normal", you are practicing self love, NOT body positivity. If you are slim, fully abled, and/or athletic, society is already jealous because you are the "Golde Rule" meaning beauty is already held to your standard. I'm not saying one is better than the other. Never. Everyone needs self love. Everyone needs to accept their bodies as is. We just need to learn to call it what it is. We, as a society, need to realize when you take over a movement, like the Body Positive Movement, it takes the attention away for the real causes, the real people who need that change. Self love is for everyone. Body Positivity is for the marginalized bodies. Just sometime to remember next time you use a hashtag 😊💜 . . . . . . . . Blouse and body suit: @shiencurve Leggings: @forever21 Boots: Thrifted #bodypositivemovement #bodypositive #fatpositive #fatbodies #fatqueer #selflove #effyourbeautystandards #bodypositivevsselflove #fatfemme (at Toronto, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/COaebUlAXiI/?igshid=1ogkm7z30hz8x

[ashleyobscuremua]

@PackAnimalCompany is changing how I personally feel about underwear, for the better. Not only is it a small local shop, (Toronto-based) but it's also a Black Queer owned company💕 The company started with underwear (let's also add that they all have packing options too🎉) and have just started selling sports bras. The bras have a slight compression feeling to them, which I love. Lots of support too. They are also extremely breathable and the bands are surprisingly comfy. The briefs are awesome. I haven't worn anything so low cut in underwear in a longgg time since they never support my tummy too. These do not fall down. I repeat THESE DO NOT FALL DOWN They make my bum look fantastic. Also, this isn't sponsored in any way. This company is just awesome and you deserve to treat yourself to dinosaur undies too🦕💕 [I'm wearing the XL sports bra and the 3XL briefs] . . . . . . . #packanimalsclothing #queerfashion #queerundies #queercurves #fatqueer #effyourbeautystandards #bodyrolls #torontofashion #torontoplussize #transclothing (at Toronto, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/COIZO2EA2m8/?igshid=15ll8b71ljnce

[ashleyobscuremua]

The pandemic put a lot of our goals on hold. Simply because the world was closed. My one of my goals for 2020 was to model and make it in a publication. Last year I did a few shoots in my back yard (first time I've ever had one in Toronto) I stripped down to my birthday suit hiding from eyes in a ravine. I finally lived out my vampire fantasy (thanks @picsbydm) And I had my photos and article published in @thewalkthroughmag Life is full of surprises and great things Just let yourself believe that you can And then let yourself have it . . . . . . #torontomua #torontomodel #torontoplussize #fatpositive #fatqueer #nonbinarymodel #loveyourcurves #loveyourself #believeinyourself (at Toronto, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/CMvDlqVAj6J/?igshid=4tvwyyciawmm

[ashleyobscuremua]

This year I'm going to learn to love my hips. I've hated them since I could remember. I wanted to be shaped like a ruler, Small chest and hips. But that is not how my bones are built. I'm meant to be a curvy human. I'm meant to have hips that could knock someone out. One day I'll love my deadly weapons. . . . . . #torontomua #effyourbeautystandards #fatqueer #fatpositive #fatbodies #fatdrag #dragqueen #dragmakeup (at Toronto, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/CMaeAhKgUlX/?igshid=1ukb8sbtyrgyt

[livvblacc]

In the house sweating and I’m sweating in the house