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Please take a moment to share this post and help get the word out about Lauren Smith-Fields (@soooolalaa on IG) & the lack of respect shown by the Bridgeport PD to her grieving family. She was a spoiled black girl in her own right & her death should be investigated as thoroughly as others are. Rest In Peace, love. You will truly be missed.
Learn How To Receive
A question I get asked alot is "How do I get comfortable recieving?" Are you not deserving? 🧐 Ultimately it's all in the way you respond. Are you reinforcing or rejecting when it comes to recieving? A High Quality Man understands that by taking care of his Queen he will be awarded so much more. So if you're worried you'll appear like you're unable to take care of yourself. Don't. The only type of man who can't grasp this concept is an extremely dusty one. Feminine energy is to receive. Contrary to popular 50/50 beliefs YOU ARE THE TABLE. So get comfortable and allow him to bring the offerings, like he wants to and like he should. When he compliments you RECEIVE IT because, damn right YOU LOOK GOOD 👩🏾⚖️ When he wants to take care of something for you RECEIVE IT because you are a soft feminine woman and you deserve your load to be lightened 👩🏾⚖️ When he gifts you RECEIVE IT, because a goddess deserves offerings 👩🏾⚖️
soulful gratification
Sex is just sex when it's void of emotional and mental attachment. It's only when those are existent, that sex becomes meaningful and special. Otherwise, a woman simply plays the role of a momentary thirst quench and a way for a man to pass the time. That's bird behavior.
We go for substance and soulful gratification only.
why the motto "women support women" doesn't work all the time
It has routinely come to my attention that the reason behind women hating, shaming and casting other women down is because of their own deeply circumstantial assemblage of shame colored by society's rejections
October Lifestyle Update
It’s been a while ladies! An update - mostly for myself. I will try and reflect on the year when we move closer to 2022, but here’s just a small, monthly update in the mean time.
Food, diet & exercise
I stopped being completely vegan/plantbased for a little while and started incorporating dairy, eggs and fish again after so many months without, simply due to severe digestive issues. But, it has failed and I feel morally, ethically unwell eating that way, so for now I’m going back on a vegan diet.
As for exercise, I really hope to start going to the gym a lot more - I have great access as there’s literally a fantastic light, calming gym and an amazing swimming pool at my work place. No excuses! As soon as I’m over this flu, I’ll get back in to it.
Selfcare & Beauty
Like stated prior, at the moment I’m down with the (seasonal?) flu, and I look as poorly as I feel, but I’m almost at the other side of it. I managed to loose 4kg but having fallen off of my diet again, I unfortunately believe I am right back to point 0. I have to diet quite strictly in order to loose any weight now, as my body being normal weight is very intent on staying the way it is.
As we’ve gone over to Autumn and I’m in love with this season, I have made it an effort to do more at home beauty, especially taking baths and using lovely scented products - shower gels, shampoos, treatments, body lotions, nice gradual self tanners to keep a glow, etc.
I’m also consistently getting acrylics done, starting with tips and now having gone over to just acrylic on my own nails. Babyboomers, classic french and now a lovely autumny nude. I simply love having on point nails all of the time, especially after the gel nails failure and a life long battle with short, brittle nails!
I got my eyelash extentions removed - it didn’t suit me whatsoever and is far too unnatural. I wanted to instead dye my lashes, which proved to be a brutal way of finding out that I am allergic to this and my eyes watered, burned and turned red for hours. So for now, I am back to makeup and fake lashes. And I actually prefer it!
Home life & Cleaning
I’ve always struggled with keeping my house tidy and clean, and I still do. I just didn’t grow up being taught to or disciplined to clean, as so it’s still not something that comes natural to me, even though I do like cleaning and even more so I value a clean home! I try to keep it clean, but from time to time it still does overwhelm me. I might start a tracker to try and help myself out, to have a clean house more frequently, because truely our home is lovely when it’s fresh and clean.
We still use fresh flowers, candles, oil diffusers and aromatherapy to freshen the home and keep it lovely, and this I’ll keep up. The few more pounds are absolutely worth it!
Budget
This month may not be the one I get to save the most money, as a lot of things are happening. I have family coming over finally after this Pandemic started, as well as being the host of this years Halloween party too. But I’m looking into saving double the amount I’m saving at the moment and really bump up my savings soon. That’s all for my budget - the rest is my private business!
All in all, I’ve been better and more disciplined. I’m still reading a lot of books about how to master this self discipline and sort myself out to be my own dream girl. But I’ll get there, one stop at a time!
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💕 You deserve to be cherished and loved the right way
💕 You deserve to be taken care of
💕 You deserve to feel secure and protected
💕 You deserve a man who helps lighten your load
I get so many messages from women who feel like a relationship filled with what they DESERVE, makes them some kind of burden. Can you imagine?
Baby girl...
Your energy is in INFECTIOUS
Your love is GENEROUS
Your body is SACRED
Your womb creates LIFE
Your heart is WARMING
You are actually PRICELESS!
Don't let a dusty man bargain you down.
The very LEAST a man can do is honour you (and pick up the tab).
It's very simple. When you mope through life like you are less than, guess what type of experiences you're going to attract? I think It's time you start doing the opposite, don't you?
Stop romanticising the games that dusties play and settling for boys who are under-qualified for the role of men. If he's not doing the fore-mentioned he's a leech of your precious time and energy.
Stop thinking you owe men ANYTHING, or that you need to prove your self sufficiency by way of expecting and accepting less.
The right man is not going to waste your time, play games, and show up unprepared. The right man is not going to make you feel like a burden. The right man will recognise your value and your value as a woman. The right man is going to step up as a man because your respect as a Queen is important to him.
And that's on.. I Deserve (Momma Dee voice)
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Just gonna leave this here.
