Femme Erasure
Sooo it has come to my attention that alot of people don't think femmes are "real lesbians" that were like secretly straight...wtf. talk about an insult. Being a lesbian means you are not sexually attracted to men. I am not sexually attracted to men. I wear skirts and i like makeup, i like having doors opened for me, i like huge ball gowns and having tea time, i like baking cakes and getting pedicures and yes i do wear my nails long when I want. <---------- all of that does NOT change my attraction to women. I like chicks. i can take off the skirts and makeup and shave my head and i'll still like chicks. I just prefer to like girls while being who i am. Feminine doesn't mean that you want to be with a man, being feminine doesn't mean that you don't wear the pants in the relationship (idc what you say someone always wears the pants lol) being feminine is a self identity not a gender identity in my opinion. I feel feminine inside. that's what I mean when I refer to myself as being a femme. so stop fucking judging me and those like me because of what we wear or how we act. it doesn't change our sexual orientation. stop acting like there are "rules" to lesbianism because there's not. the only rule is that you have to like women or else your obviously not a lesbian and i'm very sure i fall under that one rule. i'm in the fucking club stop trying to kick me out or discredit me.
