Are you a Gold Star lesbian? (Just in case you don't know what it means, a Gold Star lesbian is a lesbian that has never had the sex with a guy and would never have any intentions of ever doing so)
Whomst ??? I mean I haven’t even identified as a lesbian for years aksjskkd I could maybe be considered sapphic as a not-male queer person who likes women? But at any rate I’m bi, leaning towards other enbies I guess?
Also the whole gold star shit is lame and harmful like ?? What does a person’s sexual history have to do with how they identify? If they identify as lesbian, it would be assumed that they have no intention of being with a man in the future? But considering our heteronormative society and the prevalence of comphet, there’s a good chance of a lesbian having been with a man before coming out. That doesn’t invalidate their actual orientation. That shit is terf rhetoric.







