May 15, 2021
The grammatical hoops I must jump through in order to not misgender my best friend but also not out them...
#so their name is like#nine letters?#yeah nine letters#three syllables#so it's veryyyy awkward to not use pronouns at all#and i don't wanna use she/her because no#those aren't their pronouns#but i can't use they/them because my parents would notice#and i really don't wanna out them#so i'm speaking in like#weird sentence fragments and mumbling pronouns#fjalksfjdlska#misgendering tw#outing tw#vent tw#nonbinary