K-pop/Celebrities , idealistion and this bubble of illusion :
I was getting asks about how certain idols aren't like this in real life as compared to others ,I only want to say that dear you don't know any idol personally , nomatter how much astrology readings you read on an idol ,no matter how much of tarot readings you read,nomatter how much of their content you analyse or consume ,in the end they are someone we don't know personally,you don't know personally,you don't know their whole personality in real life ,Infact idols( and I mean every idol) are highly media and PR trained ,they know how to act Infront of fans,how to respond,how to behave in a way which is appealing to the public ,because it's literally their job like any other profession ,and in a world where their income and life is dependent on fans ,they aren't idiots to not be better at their job because only an irresponsible person won't act right Infront of people on whom their income is dependent,by this means I am not saying that every idol is not a good person or a criminal,cheater etc ,but the fact that fans think that they know their fav or idol better than others because of tarot ,astro readings or how they act in front of camera is so weird ,defending or protecting your idol is good but it's good when it's backed up with proves ,facts because thats the only way which is logical ,kpop fans protecting and thinking , believing they know their fav in real life is the cause of so many problems and delusions ,and I hope that everyone who is in a bubble see reality and not to put celebrities or any K-pop idol on a pedestal and treat them like humans,treat them like you treat yourself ,they can make mistakes ,they can make wrong decisions,they can be insecure and infavt they can be criminals too,they can be a bad person,and just because they are giving a certain image on TV ,its not their whole personality,it's not their whole truth ,just like a surgeon wont be in surgical clothes at homes or act like a doctor at home ,a lawyer is not living like a lawyer in home ,idols are same too ,so kindly treat them like humans,we as fans are not going to know if someone is criminal until we know from news and evidences ,we wont know if someone is going to be a cheater until unless it happens,we wont know if they are good partners or good humans ,good friend until unless we know them ,till then its very much like an illusion ,an illusion we see because this is what sells ,this is what the fans need ,to feel ,believe,think that the person they stan is perfect human being for every relationship,for every role ,for every job
Don't baby idols who are adults cause you never know how they are ,who they are ,don't defend them ,don't go to readers ,or random person saying that their fav can't be like this , infantalization of idols is bad ,judging someone from only readings and their highly edited and media trained content is bad ,and don't let your own feelings and thoughts ,your likeness cloud your Judgements .Idealistion of any celebrity is bad only for you ,don't think so much positive about a random stranger celebrity so much that even if something bad happens your mind won't be able to accept reality
