#ftminism

[ichliebemeinkissen]

funniest ask i've ever gotten is "you claim to be a trans women but u talk an awful lot about transmasc issues"

which is transmisogynistic on several levels but the funniest part to me is this person was so mask off about what transandrophobia is. Some people genuinely live in a world where trans women are 'supposed' to hate all other trans people and isolate ourselves from them..

[whatdoinose]

i miss when queercouse was "DNI if you use the mean lesbian flag, it's really biphobic to call yourself that"

and not "i hope trans men get raped and detransition"

[the-life-of-a-herm]

I'm intersex and would identify as a trans man (he/him and masc terms only, please).

according to one of my doctors , i should be getting both gynecological and urological care due to my specific bodily makeup.

Guess what? I don't get either. my birth certificate reads F, my body looks male . Get chased out of the gynecologist for the comfort of cis perisex women, can't even book at the urologist as my birth certificate says F.

I could always out myself, but they wouldn't treat me any better, i know better than that.

I'm tired of sex segregated spaces. They don't actually keep women safe - i don't mean to be making anyone scared, but if a man wanted to rape someone he wouldn't care if the space was sex segregated, he can just walk in and do it. Women aren't putting our health at risk (or, well, mine, not all intersex people have the same needs) for safety, they're putting our health at risk for the illusion of safety.

I'm scared, and i'm tired. I always feel like I'm not worth protecting , not worth helping, not worth considering, not worth dignity.

!!!!!! THANK YOU!! sex segregation does not "protect" anyone.. shit, that's just reused sexist rhetoric. all it does is coax people into thinking they're safer.. its bs

[dykeulous]

where are my misandrist tguys & transmascs at…… ^w^ lets remove the stigma around male-hating transmascs… we exist & we are fucking PROUD!! stop saying we are “invalidating” ourselves for refusing to group ourselves with our oppressors!! i am a proud male-hating tguy & will stay a proud male-hating tguy no matter how much you shout at me for daring be hateful about the people who harmed me!!

[gor3sigil]

Trans Male Privilege

Yes, we need to talk about the boys again. Desperately.

I am BEGGING you to read this in its entirety. BEGGING.

[femininetransmascq]

Radical feminism is an important branch of feminism, and it does not boil down to "men are bad".

The role of the oppressor is an important factor of patriarchal oppression. Yes, the role you take in society will affect how you see things, and consequentially how you act. That doesn't mean an oppressor class is irredeemable, but that they must evaluate how their role may oppress others and work to mitigate it.

There are absolutely radfems who have irresponsible and incorrect takes within radfem, (such as TERFs) but radical feminism itself is not and has never been the problem. The patriarchy exists, male dominance is a factor in women's oppression, and we must all work together to change this. That does not mean men are evil.

It's a systemic issue that is morally neutral to evaluate and work to change.

Unlike cis men, most of trans men can cannnot continue to uphold patriarchal views. As they have often experienced misogyny, and have consequently developed a sense of empathy towards women different than that of cis men.

I separate trans men from men, not because trans men are any less men than cis men, but because of their intersectionality that comes from their experiencing of both misandry and misogyny.

Which makes them benefit less from the patriarchy and less likely to uphold patriarchal oppression.

[thepoolisdead]

trans men and mascs NEED to start getting meaner. No more “agreeing to disagree” or “you have your opinion i have mine”-ing when it comes to our rights and autonomy. The so-called “Transfeminists” saying we need to shut up, or that we don’t face high rates of violence or misogyny are not our allies, and they’re certainly not our siblings. You can’t give them an ounce of leverage.

[ichliebemeinkissen]

Overall i've only ever met 1 trans dude who genuinely was vile to me for being a trans woman because in that persons mind transandrophobe and trans woman were the same thing.

I've only ever seen one person carry that rhetoric

Yet this supposed 'super common transandrobro you can find all over the tag' is the excuse for so much harassment, racism, antisemetism, misgendering, sexual harassment, etc..

Idk seems to me like y'all look for excuses to be horrible to trans people