Things you need to know...the new and improved version
This blog started as a way for me to work through the process of being on my own. I’ve been touched by how many people have contacted me and said it speaks to them, both male and female. Many times we think we’re alone in how we feel, but then we find we aren’t!
Messages are always open, but here’s a few things to know:
I do love hearing from followers, but life just doesn’t allow me to spend the amount of time chatting that I’d like to. Feel free to say hi and I will likely respond, but maybe not immediately.
If you ask a question that is clearly already answered in my blog description or in this post, you are on the way to block city. Why is anyone surprised at my age?? I told you already. 🙄
Be respectful. Sure I post NSFW stuff, and I do like a lot of things that I don’t find appropriate for this blog. But don’t be sending them unsolicited until we’ve established an interest.
Another part of being respectful, don’t start off with personal questions. Like how often I masturbate (answer: enough).
Don’t ask for my email, phone number, or other contact info outside of Tumblr.
Yes, the little thumbnail is me.
Although not impossible, if you're under 50, we probably don't have much in common.
Finally, I am happily in a relationship. Trust me, you cannot compete with it.
If you're still reading at this point, kudos to you. Are you a glutton for punishment? 😂 I do update this post periodically, so check back for more!
That’s it for now. Thanks for being here.















