Boys aren't taught how to be men, they're taught how not to be women.
Don't cry - be a man.
Don't be weak - be a man.
Don't throw like a girl - be a man.
Don't be sensitive - be a man.
Don't like ballet, barbies and the color pink. Those are girl things. You should like cars, motorcycles, sports. Those are man things.
And the tool we used to steer man away from femininity is shame. So of course if you go your whole life being told that the worst thing you can do is be like a woman you not actually going to like woman.
- Jordan Rand

















