#get consent

[batteryaced]

Writing porn is so hard that I had to study the topic with my wife.

I'm had sex with my girlfriend if you didn't get the joke.

[foggymyst]

Hey, message to like all doms, if someone is um, per say, not reciprocating your sexual advances and is in fact acting like they have no clue what you're talking about, they probably don't want them!!

And to all male doms, if you reach out to a lesbian fem Dom, you probably shouldn't try to uh. Drop her? Idk. Just figured like that would be obvious, but um, yeah.

And subs, if you're playing dumb and deflecting from sexual advances and they don't care, just- Just block em.

- Mystic

[thewholeguacamole]

A dear friend of mine told me something that happened recently that makes me incredibly angry.

So in light of that, remember to ask for consent. It's not that hard.

If you are still struggling with this concept, just watch this video.

Also don't be an ass :)

[alwaysbewoke]

Consent: The Movie

[that-angry-lesbian]

I will never understand people who don’t get consent.

Tonight I was out being the DD with my friends as always(I don’t really drink ever and I’m a party mom) and one of our friends got blackout drunk. She just went through a bad breakup after having a baby six months ago and is in a bit of a hard spot. So as I do with everyone I made sure she got home safe got everyone into bed/couch and asleep before I went to leave. Everyone stayed at my one friends house but me. I had to go home to the dogs.

When I tried to leave this friend got up and tried to kiss me. She said she wanted me to stay etc. typical drunk conversation with someone who just had a breakup and is trying to get over it by having a one night stand. I politely told her that while I think she is a wonderful smart girl this was not an appropriate time for this conversation.

Heres what I don’t understand. She was in absolutely no condition to consent to ANYTHING. She was emotionally frail from her breakup and blackout drunk. Secondly she had never shown any interest in women before this occurrence. So I could never understand someone having an experience similar to this and thinking “yeah let’s go for it”. I will never understand how men can say “well she wanted it she said yes etc”. Someone who is that drunk cannot give you consent.

Long story short. I got her to go to sleep before I left and I sincerely hope she doesn’t remember this evening because I know how embarrassed she would feel. It’s not hard to not have sex with someone who can’t consent. Just be an adult with some common human decency and walk away.

[psychoticmessworld]

Let’s make 2018 the year people stop touching others without permission.