#getting ghosted

[supershyskye]

Otherwise it just feels like you're ashamed of us. Especially if you did it with every other person before us :/

[pomeqranatejuice]

how september is going for me so far

[cieraheart]

✨I got ghosted idk why this always happens to me. Maybe I’m just too crazy✨

[coastxlwaters]

My brain: Draw the DCA fandom eclipse being silly or cute it will make you feel betterrrrr

Me burnt out, wants ppl to see my actual art, going through a lot of stress irl, getting ghosted by all my friends, and can’t show my art to my family: Yessn’t

Tw: Venting, bad mental health, burnout, severe stress, (slight) mental abuse, getting ghosted, sickness, severe mental exhaustion, eye strain

Coffee? Tried it

Tea? I have none

Sleep? I have to much and to little to do

Taking a break? To much yet to little to do, not to mention my adhd brain doesn’t fucking allow me to unless I have meds which are out for 2 days

Art I enjoy? Has been ruined to me by my friends and family

Looking at the people who like my art and follow me? 70% of them are from the crackposts I did, not my actual art

Water? I will probably get sick if I drink anymore

Spending time with family? If I try I will only get stuck in an argument I don’t want to be in, and my brother is out of town

Try to figure out why my friends are ghosting me? Their ghosting me how am I supposed to figure it out-

Make new friends? I will mentally die if I try to go socialize with all the summer work I have

Go do things I enjoy? That’s horse riding but that’s also one of the things stressing me out

I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE, please if someone has tips or anything at all I would really appreciate it a lot!

[kajaono]

Remember my lesbian ex roommates who all ghosted me and kicked me out of our apartment?

Saw them on pride today. I didn’t noticed them first, I only noticed them when they were walking directly next to me. Looked into their eyes directly and they quickly looked away. How pathetic 😒

[single-in-the-city]

Failure

Sometimes you fail. And it's a little failure. Not a big deal.

Sometimes you fail so spectacularly that once you get home you pile your weighted blanket on top yourself in the hopes that it merges you down into your mattress.

This week was one of those failures.

Upon further reflection, all you can do is laugh about it, learn from it, and move forward.

Granted, it feels like life has been nothing but failures recently after a string of ghostings, but failing a test that really mattered was the cherry on top.

What no one says about it though, is that successive failure is exhausting. It's draining. It's depressing.

When it happens, take the time you need. Recover. Buy the thing on your wishlist. Do some retail therapy. Make yourself feel better. Whatever it takes, just eventually unmerge from your mattress.