General Hospital has terrible writing when it comes to gay/lesbian people!
Go back to how Brad was literally with Wiley since he was born, but he was depicted as not knowing how to be parent, that somehow not being Wiley's bio dad made him more overwhelmed. I don't remember seeing Michael ever feel overwhelmed juggling parenting and work, or Willow for that matter. She just decided to quit.
Natalia's disapproval of Blaze's lesbianism and her need to be too involved in Blaze's life (not just her career) is depicted as a harmless thing that is excused by "I love my daughter, and I am thinking about her interests." Notice how she calls Blaze's lesbianism "a lifestyle." At the hospital she could have said "Blaze I think you need to eat" and they could have gotten something from the cafeteria or vending machine. Instead, she was not there when Kristina woke up. Instead she MANIPULATED Blaze saying "you don't want to make a scene."
(People excuse Tracy's and Sonny's controlling actions the same way).
I also realized that the reporter who outed Blaze in the tabloid appeared to be a gay man. They had a gay person out another gay person. That feels worse than Brad being complicit in a baby switch.
Later: it's obvious the writers can only comprehend duaric couples being parents.