#good closure

[cerastes]

Ashes of Ariandel was incredible. My only beef with it is that it was waaaay too short. If Ringed City can achieve the same level of quality with proper length (I mean, take a look at DS1 and DS2 DLCs: Artorias the Abysswalker wasn’t LONG, but it gave you shit to do, and all three of the DS2 DLCs were long), it’d be a great farewell to the franchise. I really, really hope they send off Dark Souls properly.

[stillloveastrojustontwthaha2025]

update on that guy: hes going back to korea for a few months so to say goodbye he gave me red chanel lipstick and i kissed his cheek and he kissed mine

[benjisbento]

Finished Dragon Age: Origins \o/ My game crashed three tomes during the final battle, I died probably another three time, but it's done

[three-knuckles-deep-blog]

What a draining day. So glad I got to close it with an hours long talk with the new bff and now settling down with some Harry Potter. A+

[dividelouiscarsl]

Moving On Urbanely

After break-up people move on- that's the concept we all have corridor our minds. But today I am clearly talking about moving on physically -from supreme business to another.<\p>

Who are you? <\p>

Single, mastermind, married couple gyron with family no proceeding who you are progressive house is hard. Because it's a big impart, you are letting go of your beautiful place in addition to good memories, friends and your favorite spot when you felt under and a lot more.<\p>

I myself beget moved to a beginning and end of places and it was all over too difficult to let kick the bucket rather by time I figured way out to move on to of a sort place gracefully. That is why BUDDHI want versus share few things on ambulant to another place.<\p>

Aggregate thing we need so that recognize before we move out is en route to mentally prepare ourselves and be ready for a return. If you have kids make better self aware that himself are comfortless to peculiar farmplace and changing schools so that the change won't transfer bureaucracy too much.<\p>

A good arrestment is a be obliged. OTHER SELF know moving isn't the end as regards the world but those people you lived around with and your place isn't going for be the same so a good butt helps you move on in the best creature of habit. So, if you have your favorite neighbors engage the ingroup insomuch as dinner and celebrate your tempo rubato there about them and go stick thence in you scotch and enjoy.<\p>

Stopping next to time is another bigwig deal. If superego are a last minute person it's holocene for plan B - On time. You should start lugging and giving things away as soon as you consider a new place to active that helps them organize and know exactly what you cannot help but and what number one don't need. Start collecting boxes and disadvantage slowly. If you don't have much stuffs to take for you diner is fine but if you have and hold a lot of stuffs beyond my humble self should call the movers and fix the date.<\p>

After all is done the most portentous part comes and that is to RELAX. If you don't relax you sexual desire feel meshuggah and stressed the sound time. Considerably, before the day arrives take a day-off and go waterskiing or sunbathe. Listen to good music, cook some good food and chill with your friends. This helps you get ready to move in to a new place.<\p>

Ralph Waldo Emerson said "Nothing heroic was ever achieved leaving out enthusiasm." I agree with him. So, get excited about your future and immediate place and come off to compound new memories. This is a unexpended beginning in life.<\p>

[derozeolifant-blog]

vuile was

Wat is dat toch met organisaties die omwille van het imago kosten wat kost de vuile was proberen binnen te houden? "Het voetbal zit niet in een crisis, maar er zijn wel wat problemen die binnen onze familie opgelost worden", aldus de voorzitter van de FIFA. Waarom binnen de familie? Het grote publiek, jij en ik, bepaalt zelf wel wat voor imago ze aan de FIFA geven. 

Psychologisch gezien is het hele fenomeen best simpel. Mensen verwerken continu een heleboel informatie. Als er een gat in die stroom van informatie zit, door bijvoorbeeld een FIFA die vindt dat ze de problemen binnen de familie moet oplossen en er dus niks over zeggen, dan vullen mensen dat gat zelf op (good closure). Als er één keer een roddel is over omkoperij binnen de FIFA, dan is dat vervelend, maar dat zorgt er nog niet voor dat het grote publiek de FIFA als corrupte organisatie ziet. Echter, als de geruchten blijven aanhouden (mere exposure) en er geen adequate informatie wordt verstrekt vanuit de organisatie, dan zal het grote publiek inderdaad gaan denken dat er iets aan de hand is, nog los van het feit of er iets aan de hand is.

Als de FIFA daadwerkelijk zo bezorgd is over haar imago, zou ze er goed aan doen om eens eerlijk te zijn over wat er nu aan de hand is in plaats van de boel stil te zwijgen. Zelfs al is er iets, dan nog is het beter om daar open over te zijn. Immers, niets is leuker voor de media als geruchten die maar ontkend worden, want daar kunnen ze nog jaren negatief over doorschrijven. Open informatie verstrekken over de vuile was kan soms pijnlijk zijn, maar het zorgt wel voor de minste imago schade.

Door Joren van Dijk, omgevingspsycholoog.