you said in tags that you had to adapt to having a BC-- As a "oh god I want a BC or mix thereof someday but I'm scared"-person, I'm curious about what that looked like for you.
honestly, I think I just wasn’t ready for a puppy, or maybe I was and I just forgot what puppies were actually like because I hadn’t had to take care of one in years. plus, a border collie puppy was a whole new ballgame. I had a calm, low energy dog before I got Finn, so it was a bit of a shock at first. I asked myself if I made the right decision more than once. after a month of sleepless nights and a lot of frustration I started to understand him a little better, though
it’s hard at first cos you can’t really take your puppy on a hike and drain his energy like that, but the puppy doesn’t care, he’s got so much energy, he’s ready to go, like all the fucking time, and he will go unless you figure out how he can channel his energy the right way. enter mental stimulation. a lot of it. tricks, obedience, puzzle toys, anything to keep him busy. another thing he likes to do is perform every single trick under the sun when you really just want him to, like, sit down, jeez
also, bloat? puppy doesn’t care about that, either. 20-60 minutes after mealtime are absolute hell cos he’s bouncing off the walls when he really shouldn’t be, so you have to find a way to calm the little fucker down and that can be really difficult cos you know how puppies sleep 18-20h per 24h cycle? not this demon. he’s not interested in toys unless they’re moving, and he wouldn’t take naps unless I crated him, and it took a while for him to learn to settle the fuck down and just sleep. if I got 5h of sleep I considered myself really lucky. and you really have to make the most of these moments cos he’ll be up and ready to go again in literally no time, and you can kiss whatever plans you had goodbye cos your hyperactive puppy demands your attention right now. (tip: it’s important for you to train him to have an off switch if you cherish your sanity, like really important)
and don’t expect your relatives or friends to be able to handle a border collie puppy even if they’re experienced dog owners. I left my parents with him for two days and they got absolutely no sleep. literally. don’t do that to your loved ones, the dog’s a handful the first couple of weeks (and still is for people who aren't, well, me). did they let him jump on their lap once? well, you’re going to have to spend the next few weeks trying to curb that particular behaviour, so good luck
all in all, I probably bit off more than I could chew but I did adapt pretty quickly, I think. once we created a daily routine that worked for us things got a lot easier (still very busy, but easier to manage). maybe he was just an isolated case but that first month put me off puppies for life














