friendo, any specific placements who get turned on by women being leaders or bosses? like say, powerful women being a turn on? and what about the other way around when it comes to powerful men (like idk some kind of fifty shades of grey shit, i guess)? 😂 pls ignore this if it’s too weird and thanks
Hnnnng I honestly don’t do anything sexual on the blog (try to keep it as pg-13 as possible) so some of this might be touching the line a lil (dont worry its not u i’m choosing to touch the line pls dont worry💕):
Vesta - I think, for me, especially in specific houses/aspects Vesta definitely points to self-empowerment to a degree. In social houses it can also point to being surrounded/respecting individuals who exhibit non-masculine power. Unrelated to sex/romance/relationship, it’s mostly to do with attitude/work-ethic/self-focused concentration. Which might be what you’re talking about? (Its a pure kind of energy too if that helps)
Lilith - gives u a lot of power, often others can feel this unruly and concentrated power in our psyche/subconscious. But it’s also part of our weaknesses, Lilith however may put up a front. Or deny itself/restrictions as well. So as much as it is powerful, it is as much a sore-spot/forbidden (double edge sword, kinda?)
Sapphos [80] -- I talked about this a lil in my other asteroid answers stuff, but Sapphos could also mean seeing the self on others and liking how it’s portrayed. This might be appreciation/soulful connections to others as well, depending on if the person realizes this or not (and how they use it)
Adonis [ 2101 ] - like the legend, and sometimes this can be a lil unexplainable. Although the range of why you’re attracted to them is a lil different, there’s an energy to it that you may feel compelled to admiring/be attracted to this person?
Aaah some of the Goddess Asteroids (Aphrodite, Astarte, Harthor, etc) -- there’s a thing I should caution which is you’ll always feel a lil lesser than them somehow (cause you’ll put them kinda on a pedestal to an extent) -- but if you learn how to push yourself up with some other stuff (and like, use the power-play for certain context/limit it down a lil) this could be nice/won’t break a romantic relationship too (*depends on the person tho)
Any sign, and all signs -- have the ability to appeal/pull us towards their self-empowerment and independence. This is mostly to do with us, and what we’re attracted to. I know most people think of Capricorn/Scorpio/Aries/Leo/Aquarius if they’re talking about ‘power’ that attracts-- but that’s -- hmm, well. That’s kind of making those signs/people of those placements objectify-able? Like there’s a ‘line’ between them and others, that dissuade people from truly understanding their Cap/Scorp/Aries/Leo/Aqua partners/potential and I don’t really like that? 💕
All of these are non-gender specific, only femininity/masculinity/mixture of both that is implied in the name of the asteroid itself. 💕 I hope this is kinda helpful? 💕 It’s honestly just on top of my head, I feel like I know more but I have to check later. 💕 Thanks for asking friendo! 💕