honestly I'm tired of the person first/identity first debate. the default shouldn't matter very much as long as you listen to what the person in question wants. shout-out to anyone who uses any of the following terms:
person with autism.
autistic person.
autistic (noun)
autistic (verb)
has autism
is autistic
suffers from autism
gifted with being autistic
on the low end of the spectrum
on the high end of the spectrum
very autistic
has a little bit of autism
profoundly autistic
high functioning
low functioning
low support needs
high support needs
gifted
not normal
weird
neurodivergent
disabled
differently abled
ableminded
not disabled
has a touch of the tism
neurosilly
neurospicy
special
special needs
normal
some other word/phrase I've never heard









