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hesaiddangerous replied to your post: Although I liked it as a whole, I do want to get...

My headcanon is that Rosie is with Mummy and Daddy Holmes because John knows the game is not over.

Ooo good call, I hadn’t thought of that. That could actually play into episode 3 very well if it turns out that this is all a vendetta from the third Holmes against her family.

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hesaiddangerous replied to your photo:carrying up his morning tea: chapter three “No,”...

Oooh! But I did not get an AO3 email notification for this☹️

oh no! i hate it when ao3 does that...i might have posted it too close to the between each beat update that also went out last night so maybe ao3 got the wires crossed??? i’ll remember that for the next chapter tho so thanks for letting me know this 

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cutteroo replied to your post “Every time I see John Watson’s wedding ring, a piece of me dies.”

Same

hesaiddangerous replied to your post “Every time I see John Watson’s wedding ring, a piece of me dies.”

Same

missmuffin221 replied to your post “Every time I see John Watson’s wedding ring, a piece of me dies.”

I feel you

I’m so glad to see that this is a shared pain. Join hands, friends. We’re in this together.

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Hi, will you do 'tiger' and 'murmur' please?

YES I WILL 💖💖

tiger - What is your bravest moment?

Hmmm.  I don’t know!  I have a lot of brave moments, I think, but they’re brave in different ways so it’s hard to compare them.  So, a short list of them would be coming out (more than once), moving to Japan, then leaving Japan (which was braver, in a lot of ways, I think), and breaking up with my last girlfriend when I realized she wasn’t gonna give me what I needed emotionally.  But each of these were my bravest moments at the time I did them, and I think they were equally brave!

murmur - How do you deal with drama?

Generally, I don’t engage in drama.  If someone is coming at me with drama at the ready, I react calmly and compassionately because I know acting irrationally gets me nowhere, and if someone is in the wrong, I’m not gonna get them to see my point of view by acting like an asshole, so I act respectfully and give the person a chance to change their behavior, if not their opinion.  If they continue acting like a jerk, then I just disengage and wipe my hands of the situation because sometimes you have to know when to pick your battles.  Even if someone is being rude to me, I’m not going to waste my time being rude back because I make a choice constantly to be a kind, loving, compassionate person, and I am a firm believer that two wrongs don’t make a right.  This doesn’t mean I’m a pushover - in fact, it’s very much the opposite.  I treat people kindly and expect others to as well, and if people show me they aren’t kind, then they aren’t in my life until they show me they’ve changed.  Idk if this makes sense - I hope it doesn’t sound unforgiving, because I’m a very forgiving person.  It’s just that I extend compassion to both others and to myself, so I have no time for people who make me or my loved ones feel bad.  anyway this got off topic, sorry, I wrote you a novel 😂  (also, side note, I firmly believe that if someone is coming at me with hateful drama, they’ve got more problems than I do because even when someone irritates me, I don’t feel the need to be hurtful or mean because it doesn’t make me feel good about myself to hurt others.  And so, I think, if someone is trying to hurt ME, then they must think hurting people is okay, and they must be mean to themselves, too.  and that sucks.  this might be a slight over-simplification, but i do believe it.  when people are going out of their way to be mean or hurtful, they’ve probably got a lot of their own shit going on, so while i will definitely be honest to them and not stand for bullshit, i’m not gonna do it in an unnecessarily mean or below the belt way.)

send me a question!

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@hesaiddangerous said: About the vid?

That was it! I pinged you again... sorry for being such a scatterbrain! :)

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@hesaiddangerous replied to your post:Huh. I wonder if the end of Sign of Three tapped...

I cannot look at that scene and sometimes not even the Gif. That horrible feeling of being excluded, of not being allowed in, and not knowing what to do about it.

Yep, that’s how I see it, too, and the gif is a fairly recent development; like, I’ve only recently been able to watch it. :’(

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hesaiddangerous

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your link:

And Take Me From Here - abrae - Sherlock (TV)...

So close to home at the moment that I was apprehensive about reading this, it has turned out to be an enormous comfort.

I’m so glad. It’s basically therapy!fic for me, so it makes me doubly happy that you’re finding it comforting as well. :’)

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hesaiddangerous replied to your post:

…and I really want to know what’s up with that bullet.

It's really a small thing, but I promise to resolve it before the end of the story. :)