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Hijab is the beauty of every Muslim woman

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Which Woman Was Superior In Knowledge?

al-Zuhrī said: “If the knowledge of ʿĀʾishah were to be gathered (and compared) to the knowledge of all the women combined, the knowledge of ʿĀʾishah would have been superior.” وَقَالَ الزُّهْرِيُّ: لَوْ جُمِعَ عِلْمُ عَائِشَةَ إِلَى عِلْمِ جَمِيْعِ النِّسَاءِ، لَكَانَ عِلْمُ عَائِشَةَ أَفْضَلَ. al-Ḏahabī, Siyar Aʿlām al-Nubalāʾ 2/185 الذهبي، سير أعلام النبلاء ٢/١٨٥ https://shamela.ws/book/10906/2356 @ilmtest [https://t.me/ilmtest]

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Criteria for Hijaab in Islam - Dr Zakir Naik  Top-407 

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- Dit artikel is in samenwerking met Buy the Nour -

Ik kwam een webshop tegen op instagram met khomor voor kleine meisjes, de eerste webshop met kleine khomor in allerlei (kleine) maten. Ik was er de afgelopen tijd al naar opzoek, dus ik ben heel erg blij dat ze een samenwerking met mij wilden aangaan. 

De eigenaresse werd geïnspireerd door een klein meisje om de webshop te starten. Lees hieronder het verhaal van de eigenaresse:

''De reden waarom ik Buy the Nour ben gestart is, omdat er ongeveer 2 jaar geleden op school van mijn kinderen een meisje naar me toe kwam en mij iets vroeg. Ze vroeg mij: ''ughti, weet u waar ik een khimar kan halen voor mijn leeftijd? Ik wil het zo graag dragen, maar het wordt nergens verkocht''. 

Ik bedacht mij toen dat het inderdaad nergens verkocht wordt en dat heeft me aan het denken gezet. Er zijn genoeg jonge meiden die het willen dragen Allahumma barik. Dit heeft toen 2 jaar in mijn hoofd gezeten en nu is het gelukt Alhamdulillah. 

Ik ben dankbaar en blij dat ons kleine zustertje mij dit heeft gevraagd en als ik haar ooit nog eens tegenkom, mag zij een khimar uitzoeken bij mij. Moge Allah haar standvastig houden, ameen''.

De hijaab is een verplichting in de Islam, laat je dochters er dan ook vroeg kennis mee maken. Ik ben geen voorstander van dwingen. Dat hoort niet in de religie. Uiteindelijk moeten ze het zelf doen en met een zuivere intentie alleen voor Allah. Niet voor de ouders, vriendinnen etc. Mijn dochters dragen beide nog geen hoofddoek, maar van jongs af aan dragen ze het bijvoorbeeld in het weekend wel (naar de moskee). Je kunt de hoofddoek op verschillende manieren introduceren. 

Allah ta'ala zegt in de qoraan:

''O Profeet, zeg tegen jouw echtgenotes en tot jouw dochters en tot de vrouwen van de gelovigen dat zij hun overkleden (Djilbab) over zich heen laten hangen... (33:59)​

Tijdens het gebed dien je je als vrouw natuurlijk ook te bedekken. Leer je kind dit dus ook van jongs af aan. Laat je kind mee bidden ook al weet je kind totaal niet hoe en wat. Kinderen doen uiteindelijk niet wat je zegt, maar wat ze jou als ouder zien doen. Leer je kind ook om naar de moskee altijd een hoofddoek op te doen. Ook al is een kind ''klein''. In de moskee wordt altijd gebeden, ook al is het 2 rak'ah. Dan leert je kind meteen dat het erbij hoort. 

Mijn dochters droegen altijd van die amira hoofddoekjes, maar nu ze wat groter zijn vinden ze khomor veel mooier en praktischer om te dragen. Ik stimuleer ze daar wel in, dus als ze het willen zeg ik geen nee! We zijn laatst naar wat islamitische winkels geweest voor khomor, maar het is erg lastig die te vinden. Ik ben dus erg blij met deze webshop! Ik ga zeker meer bestellen voor mijn meiden in sha Allah. 

Buy the Nour is dus een feit, Allahumma barik! 

Ze verkopen verschillende maten van 4 tot 15 jaar. De kleinste maat zou ook door een peuter gedragen kunnen worden. De prijzen voor de khomor zijn verschillend. Van 4 t/m 8 jaar betaal je 13,95 en van 9 t/m 15 jaar betaal je 15,95. De khomor zijn in veel verschillende kleuren verkrijgbaar. Momenteel zijn er vooral herfstkleuren en is het stof wat dikker. In de zomer komen er meer lichte kleuren. Ook gaan ze over op een dunner stofje. Dit maakt het makkelijker voor kinderen om te dragen. Bestellen kan via Instagram: @buy_thenour of Facebook: Buy TheNour. In Amsterdam Osdorp kun je de khomor ook kopen bij Hafsa Boutique. 

De khomor worden speciaal voor Buy the Nour gemaakt en is dus geen inkoop, verkoop handel. 

Wil jij ook een mooie khomor, van goede kwaliteit? Doe dan zeker mee met de winactie op mijn instagram. 

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Halima Aden using her large platform to encourage the youth and women to return back to their deen and hijab is soo beautiful and refreshing to see wallahi. May she blessed abundantly for spreading the TRUTH❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Hadeeth 4: "Women should not wear tight-fitting clothes and thin materials outside the home (dressed yet naked)―or have humps like camels on their heads, nor call other women to their sins." (40 Hadeeth on the Manners and Conduct of Women)

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hi! ive been a fan of yours for a really long time! im sorry if this is out of place and dont worry if you dont want to answer it — i noticed you wear a hijab, and i wanted to ask, as a woman in america especially, what is your thought process behind wanting to wear one? im 16 and i wear a hijab now too but its given me a lot of crap for a long time esp here in america and im considering stopping wearing it i just don’t know and im so conflicted. I thought another opinion might help :):):)

Thank you, that's so sweet! I wasn't aware I had fans. :D

Wearing the hijab has always been a constant conflict in my life. My viewpoint is not a popular one, and it will sound super flaky, but it works for me. Just know that you don't have to do anything I say, and ultimately your decision should always be yours.

I was put in an Islamic school in third grade, where a hijaab was part of the uniform, and went back to public school in eighth grade. For half of the year, I wore my hijaab, then decided to stop wearing it without my parents knowing.

Note that at this point in my life, I was dealing with some kind of inner revolution and a lot was happening. I finally got child services involved with my mother, I started watching shows that had been deemed inappropriate for me as a kid (Disney Channel shows) and I absolutely loathed everything holding me back from being cute and popular and musical. Islam was one of those things. So I decided to convert. Not only did I take my scarf off, I ate meat in the school cafe (not pork tho), and I started listening to a lot of music.

I did tell my parents, they didn't accept it, I didn't accept their nonacceptance and kept doing what I was doing.

I converted back about a year later because I realized that I wanted a higher power to believe in, and I was scared without it.

But I didn't start wearing the hijaab again until eleventh grade. A large part of taking it off had been that I thought I wasn't pretty enough with it on, that guys didn't like me, and I'm not ashamed of that, middle school girls think like that.

But a part of me was resigned that I wasn't pretty anyways, so I may as well be faithful to my faith. That ain't a great motivation.

But I was always very...casual about it. I wasn't faithful, I wasn't dedicated. If it was falling off in class, I'd fix it right there in class instead of going to the bathroom. If it was getting in the way while I was playing volleyball, then it would stay off until the period was over. Cute guy in the classroom? Adios, scarf.

And as a matter of fact, that is still how I am with it. Because I inherently believe that the hijaab does not have to be a commitment. Most people who wear it take it as one, and that's fine, but you don't have to. If one day you feel uncomfortable or God forbid, unsafe, wearing it, then by all means take it off. I've chosen to go no scarf for the day for the littlest thing, like my hair looking cute.

And it took me a while to come to terms with this. Because it feels wrong. Wearing the hijaab feels wrong because I feel like it tells the world something about me that is untrue, while not wearing it feels wrong because I feel like I've turned my back on my faith. There was no winning, until I realized (with therapy, mind you) that as long as I don't pressure myself to do something I don't want to do that day, I can live with it.

So, if you want to, I would go day by day. Wear your hijaab, and if you like it, keep wearing it. If not, don't.

If you like it and some snooty kids with dirt on their faces harass you about it, report them. Don't take that shit, ever.

If you don't like and some haughty bitches with superiority complexes judge you, ask yourself who knows your relationship with Allah(SWT) best? You or them? It's you. It's always you.

I love my religion, but I've had to come to love it in my own way, to see it not as restricting but as empowering, and I hope everyone can get there one day. If I had stuck to what everyone told me Islam was, and what the hijaab had to be, I'd hate both my religion and myself right now.

It's all about you. The hijaab is a way for you to express yourself, and the only thing that matters is how you choose to do it.

Thank you again, and don't be afraid to DM me or send me another ask if there's anything else. :)

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Saw this on YouTube and thought to post my response here as well, in case anyone out there deals with similar issues

Are your intentions rooted in love for Allaah and guidance, or is it rooted in fear? You mention anxiety and when you have that, adding resistance and fear only drives you over the edge. This is not what Allaah wants for you. Before anything can sprout, it needs roots. Instead of fighting the symptoms, go to the root of the issue and truly ask Allaah for resolution. Not so you can wear hijaab or anything else, but so that you can have inner peace. Faith can't take root in inner chaos and turbulence. You need inner stability and stillness. Give up the control because when you do things from a mental perspective it only fragments you further. Ask Allaah for a complete and lasting healing* that will allow you to practice Islaam with ease and flow. The problem isn't in the commandments themselves, but in that you aren't integrating your mental realm with your spirituality. You can't compartmentalize yourself like that. Also, know that Allaah is loving, abundant, extremely merciful. Beware of the diabolical thoughts that try to pose as righteousness threatening you with misguidance and wrath. That's shaytaan who's trying to drain whatever hope you have left. Repel those thoughts by knowing that what's from Allaah would never ever instill terror in you. It wouldn't cause anxiety or make you feel suffocated. All of that is a result of darkness closing in on you, and darkness is but the absence of divine light. Trust yourself. You're well on your way. I ask Allaah to relieve you from these entanglements and to love you and envelope you in His abundant mercy!!

* i had a remarkable ducaa in mind when I wrote that. I thought how often do we pursue solutions that may remedy an immediate problem but cause others to crop up? It's so exhausting, especially when you have your hopes up that this one thing will be the end to all your mental woes.

اللهم رب الناس أذهب البأس اشفي أنت الشافي لا شفاء إلا شفاؤك ، شفاء لا يغادر سقما

allaahumma rabban-naas ad-hibil ba',s ishfee antash-shaafee laa shifaa'a illaa shifaa'uka shifaa',an laa yughaadiru saqaman

O Allaah, Lord of people, remover of hardship, heal me – for You are the Healer, there's no healing but Yours– with a healing that does not leave any illness behind.

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