It’s story time so!
maybe 6 years ago 2014 I met this guy and I thought we were in love. He was 21 and I was 17 so I didn’t know much about love, I let him cheat and act irrational when I should’ve left him alone. He would try to get me pregnant and hide my birth control. He had a problem where all he did was go to work, cheat on me w prostitutes, get high or go out to nice places and stay at home with his mom and I was in college to be a Nurse Practitioner and when I came home from school in 2016 for Christmas I stayed the night at his house and woke up w slashed tires. Apparently my boyfriend at the time had another little side chick but I never had anyone slash my tires, then she followed us to a red Lobster and we had a fight. She was stalking me at my job, my house, she would bring people to my house w guns and get a restraining order against everyone in my house so no one could do anything back to her. She would email me, she would call me, Now remind you this chick was ugly she was tall dark and badly built, she had a kid (nothing against women w kids) but she was throwing her kid on my ex making her call him daddy and shit now that’s just weird and burnt. She was a ebony pornstar on the internet who drove one of those old ass Porsche Trucks all the hoes drive and kept a ugly ass outfit from the swap meet for sure anyway, he ended up putting his hands on me while we were driving and we had a car accident that resulted in us both getting arrested and he lied on me so I had to pay for the car and get probation and the side girl was saying she was pregnant & he made it seem like I was just some bitter ex who wouldn’t go away. I will never speak to/have never spoken to this person since, so fast forward to now we found out that the baby wasn’t his so he did all that for nothing and a few days ago I’m riding in a drop top car w my new boo and we notice my ex is following us, we pay it no mind due to the fact he always hit me up tryna come back and I just ignore it. Why the next day my ex pulled a gun out on my uncle at the gas station around the corner from our house (we all live in the same city so it’s not hard to find anyone) and he’s just been arrested for assault with a deadly weapon and I don’t wish jail on nobody but I’m so fucking happy y’all don’t understand the emotional stress. I felt like nothing after I went to jail and all that happened, I never trusted men the same, it was hard to get a job w something on my record, I didn’t know who I was I was only 19 but I knew from then on I would never go out sad over anybody or anything ever again. It’s also crazy how they say making one decision can last a lifetime or years and this person was one of them. I’m blessed that I’m out of this situation and that this monster isn’t on the streets. Ladies don’t ever be loyal to a man, the only thing they loyal to is they dick and once that stops working at 45 they’re basically walking mannequins.
