consciousness of some human patterns - is there any impacting you now?
P.S.: I will suggest some things for each of the patterns, but the awareness itself will help a lot in perceiving yourself more clearly and less based on the voice of the negative complex created by the conscious mind, which experienced bad things.
By practicing your awareness, your focus will be much more on overcoming these patterns and moving towards change. ✨💗
After all, none of these patterns do us any good!
The focus will never be on the 'responsible' ones, those who possibly worsened the wounds, fears, and generated traumas.
If it happens that you were hurt by someone, the problems they brought or increased in your life will be something they will harvest on their own path.
Please take care not to fall into revenge and hatred. I understand if these feelings arise, just don't hold onto them for too long 💗 We all deserve healing!
CRITICISM PATTERN
Towards yourself and others, especially others
When we are heavily criticized,
we get used to this pattern, starting to see others as beings who could criticize us at any moment - thus, we insert into our vibrational field the fear of criticism, and everything that fear vibrates, it attracts.
At the same time, we create the possibility of falling into the energy of easily criticizing everything and everyone, after all, we already have this extremely detailed lens for each of our own "failures" and falls internally.
You are not a mistake or a failure. Notice that the voice and gaze that seem to criticize you so much are first and foremost from within. Embrace this with care and love, and understand that it's okay to make mistakes and fail, and that much of what you see as a failure is not even that. It's a maximization that your mind makes of things, but it's not that immense. Embrace yourself with more love, and notice that your acceptance of others might increase as well, if that's the case.
Tips
Always use with intention, meaning direct these tools to support you in this! ^ ^:
Recommended baths: Lemon Balm, Lavender - they act on the subtlety of the bodies closest to the physical, such as the etheric, the mental, and partially on the Aura.
Recommended crystals: Thulite and Rose Quartz.
LOCKED VULNERABILITY PATTERN
Emotional blockage, "I don't want to feel this"
When we get too used to hurt and pain,
we start to see the world through a lens of defense and attack, where we need to envelop ourselves in a protective shell because, at any moment, someone might "attack."
Thus, we create the fear of being hurt, preventing us from looking at past issues, finally releasing them, and freeing ourselves.
Instead, we store everything in a chest, locked with seven keys, but the effects remain (our mind has autonomous psychic energy), preventing us from experiencing new relationships, situations, and the world itself.
Additionally, in some cases, we may become extremely bitter and disconnected from our emotional field, spewing manipulations, venom, hatred, and other bad feelings towards others, for the pleasure of satisfying our own unhealed wounds. (This happens when a person has hidden their own wounds from themselves for a very long time, over many incarnations).
In the end, the wounds not looked at become the weapon to hurt others - and in the end, themselves! In these cases, we don't see much self-love; a person living in this pattern still has to rescue their self-love, because for now, they don't experience it, unfortunately.
Notice where your most sensitive, deep internal part is. What are your wounds? Where have they gone? Are they hidden somewhere? Are they spilling into your relationships as fear of relating, opening up, serving, giving yourself? Or have they turned into arrows you shoot at others?
Tips
Always use with intention, meaning direct these tools to support you in this! ^ ^:
Recommended baths: Roses and Hibiscus - they act on the subtlety of the bodies closest to the physical, such as the etheric, the mental, and partially on the Aura.
Recommended crystals: Thulite, Rhodochrosite, Amazonite (this last one helps a lot in expressing feelings and emotions, it's perfect for those who keep emotions, anger, grudges, and even good emotions!).
'UNWORTHINESS' PATTERN
When we get used to not receiving and only giving, be it love, attention, care, affection, whatever:
we don't understand the true notion of love at all levels, familial love, friendship, romantic love. We believe that we are not naturally worthy, that we must work and work to achieve it. We start to see things and the world with hard eyes, as if everyone around you were beings for you to serve, but not to serve you.
You start to believe that you don't deserve without first working TOO MUCH for it. We create a severe pattern of self-demand and distancing from light experiences, natural exchange in giving and receiving. And all this can impact professional life, relationships, and especially internally. You never forget what you received and believe you always need to work and "pay" before the gift arrives.
Beloved, accept receiving as well as giving. The balance of life harmonizes as we can and accept the beauty of giving, but also of receiving.
Tips
Always use with intention, meaning direct these tools to support you in this! ^ ^:
Recommended baths: Mugwort, Rosemary - they act on the subtlety of the bodies closest to the physical, such as the etheric, the mental, and partially on the Aura.
Recommended crystals: Tiger's Eye, Rhodochrosite, Green Quartz.
