Resources List for “Hold Your Applause: Addressing the Feeling of Being a Fraud” presentation- Updated for 2023!
This resource list goes with my @beguiledcon 2023 imposter Syndrome Class (link to presentation notes upcoming). I’m happy to add new resources if you leave me a note in the comments. Articles will be in italics and books in bold. Feel free to repost/reblog!
Review of the current scientific literature regarding imposter syndrome
Self Test for Imposter Syndrome
Neil Gaiman on Imposter Syndrome (thanks @dommestic!)
Psychology Today’s Imposter Syndrome articles directory
Presence: Bringing Your Boldest Self to Your Biggest Challenges by Amy Cuddy
The Confidence Code: The Science and Art of Self-Assurance---What Women Should Know by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman
IMPOSTER SYNDROME AS A SOCIAL PHENOMENON
Stop Telling Women They Have imposter Syndrome
How Do I Overcome Imposter Syndrome? tiktok
(resources and inspiration for this section by the lovely Velvetine_Rabbit- thank you!)
SELF HELP FOR CONFIDENCE STRUGGLES
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy(CBT):
More information about cognitive distortions and strategies for questioning them
Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by David Burns
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT):
Information on using defusion strategies to address negative thinking
Mental Health “Monster” Illustrations
The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT):
More information on opposite action
The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook: by Matthew McKay, Jeffrey C. Wood, Jeffrey Brantley
TIPS ON SHAME/SELF KINDNESS
Article on why self compassion is effective
Additional articles/exercises on self compassion by Dr Kristen Neff
Brene Brown video on shame/vulnerability
I Thought it Was Just Me by Brene Brown
TIPS FOR STARTING THERAPY
Kink Aware Professionals Therapist Directory
How I Found a Kink-Positive, Polyamory-Savvy Therapist by Kate Sloan
Fundamentals of Therapy #3: The First Session by Ryan Howes
RESOURCES FOR BEGINNING (AND IMPROVING!) HYPNOTISTS
@binaural-histolog‘s Tumblr especially From Newbie to Hypnotist
Learn Hypnokink website- by @h-sleepingirl and @gleefulabandon
Setting Your Subject Up For Success class notes from @sex-obsessed-lesbian
@notthesecretsubject‘s educational playlist (especially How YOU Can Become a Better Hypnotist, How to Do Erotic Hypnosis, An Introduction to Hypnotic Inductions)
Beginner’s Introduction to Erotic Hypnosis class by Mesmerotic UK
Hypnokink 101 with Hypnostory and panda ($ video but with lots of hours of content)
Two Hyp Chicks podcast (especially Where to Start?, Improving as Subjects and Hypnotists, and Utlization)
@h-sleepingirl‘s article archive
Trancing in the Sheets video series by Kaz Riley
James Tripp’s Hypnosis Without Trance videos
My Resisting the Top file (combo resistance play with toppy confidence file)
You Know More Than You Think file - by @tennfan2- For switches learning to lean into their top side
Video on working with people with ADHD from @sweettist
Zebu cards - Playing cards with Eriksonian hypnotic phrases- helpful for people learning to speak hypnotically (See also - Salad cards).
RESOURCES FOR BEGINNING (AND IMPROVING!) SUBJECTS
On Becoming a Skilled Subject by @h-sleepingirl
Learn Hypnokink website- by @h-sleepingirl and @gleefulabandon
Beginner’s Introduction to Erotic Hypnosis class by Mesmerotic UK
@arihi‘s posts on improving as a subject here and here
A Message for Hypnokinky Submissives by @jukeboxemcsa
Some Thoughts on the Acting Dilemma
Hypnosis for People Who Want to Be Hypnotized bu @ultinath
Two Hyp Chicks podcast (especially What Does Trance feel like?, Where to Start?, Improving as Subjects and Hypnotists, and Subject Skills and NLP reframing)
@notthesecretsubject‘s educational playlist
Hypnokink 101 with Hypnostory and panda ($ video but with lots of hours of content)
@wellgnawed has some files focused on gradually improving hypnotic skills here
Test Hypnosis Game by @h-sleepingirl
Six Days Asleep by @h-sleepingirl (self hypnosis zine)
Train Your Hypnokink Subject Agency by Annalisedefere
Here and Now by @tennfan2 File to help build suggestibility as well as the ability to accept/reject suggestions
KINK 101/CONFIDENCE FOR NEW TOPS/BOTTOMS
The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy