@ill337erate replied to your post “hey guys if someone was hurt by your behavior and you did not intend...”
Yeah man Vagueing (which sounds to be what this person is doing) is not the right way to reach out to a person who you think did you wrong. Do Nothing is the correct action on your part. Also I have no way of knowing for sure since I wasn’t there but tbh if someone feels like an idiot just because someone else disagreed during a discussion it’s probably on them to do a little inner reflection
some reflection on my part has led me to believe that my main offense was looking a bit like someone trying to understand maths (pick a gif. any gif. that was me) and i understand that it probably didnt feel awesome to have someone looking like that while you’re trying to explain your thoughts but it was literally... i was trying to understand; she had a whole different angle on it than i did and i could not see where her angle was. at no point did i say, imply, or even think that her interpretation was stupid (or worth less than mine), and we dropped it and moved on when it became clear i wasnt gonna get it, so like???????
i am genuinely sorry and upset that smth i did in any way led to a classmate feeling uncomfortable but this is not something i think that i can change? it’s what my face looks like. not really sure what i could’ve done differently other than not ask for clarification when smth is confusing to me and thats kinda contrary to what im at university FOR
(eta that it’s hilarious you called it vagueing bc that’s exactly how i described it to my friends at first LMAO i was like “guys i think my classmate just vagued me in front of the whole class???”)