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Imperfect Perfect
The yin-yang is a symbol of life. It maybe a Chinese philosophy but the field of Psychology recognizes it’s theory.
Every person is not innately good for every person has a darkness in them. In return, every person is not innately evil as there is light in them. They balance each other out and complement each other. In other words, in every person there is good and bad. And that’s what makes one a person, a human with life. It is the epitome of the imperfect perfect as it symbolizes the human life and experience.
What is my point in saying the things above?
Nothing you say or do will make me stop seeing you in a different light. I will always see the good in you. Nothing you will do or have done will affect how I see you. I will always see the good in you. I will focus on the good in you because that good in you is something one does not see in anyone. It is once in a lifetime. And even if I focus too much on the good in you, I still and will love all that is you are: the good, the bad, the ugly. Because it is you as a whole.
You are imperfect yet you are perfect. You are my imperfect perfect boy.
Nothing you said, say, or will say and nothing you did, do, or will do will make me not love you. My love for you has no labels. I will not define it. I will just do it. I will just love you. It need not any definition. Because when there is definition and the definition is lost, so may the love. When the definition gets lost in translation, so may the love.
I don’t know how to speak the language of love but for you I will.
Nothing you say or do or said or have done will make me love you any less, rather they make me love you more. All your words, all your stories, they are poems, prose, sonnets that the likes of Virginia Woolf and Edgar Allan Poe could never achieve. Every time you open your soul to me and give me a glimpse of your spirit, it makes me love you more. That is intimacy. A mature intimacy. This form of intimacy is only gained by opening up one’s heart, body, and soul.
“I love you because” not “I love you despite”. There is no “despite” because you have no liabilities.
Nothing you said, say or will say and nothing you did, do or will do changes anything. I will not love you any less. I will not care about you any less. I will not hold anything against you. I will not even ask for anything in return. I have conditioned myself to love you unconditionally. All I ask is to let me love you and let me make you love you. At your best and at your worst, you are love by me.
You are loved and will be loved.
My dear sweet angel, you have been through so much. You have experienced hell, the worst parts of it. But on the other side of you is heaven, and when you get there, you will see why. I do not care how long it will take for us to get there but I am willing to wait. I cannot give you everything but I will try. Should you want something I cannot give, you can find it in others. I will still welcome you in my arms afterwards. I will endure anything and everything just for you to fill what needs to be filled.
Why am I willing to do such?
Because life is imperfect but to me, you are perfect.
Perfect with Its Imperfection
x : It’s great!
y : Indeed. It’s wonderful to be around the woods like this, isn’t it?
x : Yaaa! So, what do you do here? You said you spend most of your time here, right?
y : Hm em. Many things. Sometimes reading, sometimes just lay down here (laying on the hammock), closing eyes, sometimes listening to musics, sometimes just thinking.
x : Doing the homeworks?
y : Hahaha. Iyaaa! This gonna be my site for the next project. They asked me to create something.....I don’t know....different and visit-able for the citizens.
x : Like a small version of Dufan or.....?
y : Hahahaha, big no. Eventhough, maybe they would think so, but I won’t cut down all these lovely pines. Aaaah, it smells good! I like it this way, however. The wilderness, the ding dang dong pines (pointing different top of the pine trees), the damp damp ground, the broken benches, aren’t they perfect? This place is perfect with its imperfections, I think.
x : (nodding)
y : Y know, I start to think that...most of things in life are better to be left imperfect (swinging hammock).
x : Because?
y : Perfect is boring. Hahaha. Being imperfect, you’ll still remember The Only Perfection in this universe. I remember the times when I felt convenient and comfort, like when I’m around the people whom I feel like, homey and I felt...like my life was complete, I rarely came to God for seriously, I mean, I did sholat, I did the quran recitement, but I just did that as a duty. But when I felt insecure, worried, sad or upset, I did pray more seriously, like all the efforts to connect with Him were not a duty but my necessity. And the fact is like that. Sholat, reciting the holy quran, dzikr, even remembering that Allah sees everything you do in life...those are my essential necessity. To control my life, to stick to my real destination.
x : Where’s your destination?
y : (Smiling widely) Going back home, His home.
x : Agree, then. It’s perfect already.
The pain, the obstacles, the opposites, the dismission, the hard times, are given to us as a very beautiful ‘hello’, but it’s hard for us to realise that as we always look for perfections. Smooth road, agreement, acceptance, and the easy ways are God’s blessings, but it also to test you. Will you get high and forget Him, or increase your faith and be thankful to Him.
Perfect and imperfect.. it’s just the matter of point of view.
Imperfect. Sta a te come leggerlo. Puoi leggerlo "Imperfect" o "Im perfect". Sono le nostre imperfezioni che ci rendono perfette, speciali. A chi piacciono delle ragazze tutte uguali? È arrivato il momento di reagire ragazze, smettiamo di leggere IMPERFEZIONE e iniziamo a leggere PERFEZIONE. Perché si, tutte voi siete perfette e non sarà uno stupido ragazzo a farvi pensare il contrario ♥
You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly
Sam Keen