Right hello again. It’s me back with a serious post. Like I said, I don’t usually do these but I want to address this quickly and with no hate towards anyone. Also just so everyone knows, I’m not trying to target anyone specific it’s really just the whole TSC fandom.
So. We all need to sit and have a chat. The TSC fandom is OUT OF CONTROL. I’m serious ok? It’s out of the control. When I came to Tumblr thinking yay a way to enjoy fandoms and make friends, I didn’t expect to be witnessing ship wars and fights and arguments on every corner I turned to. I’m sure a lot of people agree to be honest.
So many big fandoms can control their issues, but the TSC fandom? No, it’s unheard of, uncalled for, unseen. Some of you, in my opinion, are just looking to fight over anything. Be it a ship, a character, ANYTHING. Yes, there are issues, and yes they should be addressed, but not like this! Not in a way where people don’t want to come to Tumblr anymore because it’s just fighting and ship wars.
Some of you are really turning the TSC part of Tumblr into TikTok and Instagram. When you go to Instagram what do you see? Fights and arguments. What do you see when you go to TikTok? Horrible comments and arguments. That’s what the TSC fandom has become. Just think for a second. That’s not ok.
There’s been a big rise in hate anons and ship wars. Let me just say, hate anons ARE NOT OK. They never have been, never will be. It’s cowardice and just horrible. Why bring someone’s day down? And why do it with a mask on?
A second thing is the ship wars. They are NOT OK. You can ship whatever you want (as long as it isn’t incest, pedophilia etc) and no one is allowed to judge you for it. No one can stop you. But why do some of you feel the absolute, unsatisfied need to projectile dump your feelings about a ship, onto someone else? It’s not funny, it’s not clever. It’s just petty. Another thing, bashing and belittling another ship to make yours seem better is NOT THE WAY TO GO. AT ALL. Don’t do it. (For example: the Thomstair vs Arianna ship war. Some of you belittled Thomstair by saying hOw diD yOu gUyS sEe tHe loVe?? and some of you belittled Arianna. That is NOT ok. Why can’t we just enjoy what we’ve been given and agree that both ships have little page time? Why can’t we all stand together? Side note - I’m not blaming either party here you were both in the wrong). For some people, ships are very important to them so you can’t go around bashing other ships because it can really hurt some people’s feelings. It’s not right. Some of you definitely need to pull up your big people pants and start respecting people and discussing things properly and kindly or just not discussing them at all. Key word here: DISCUSS. Not yell, not bash, not argue, not fight. DISCUSS.
Another thing. Some people just come here to complain. I understand that the lack of WLW relationships is wrong and the treatment of POC characters is wrong. I really do understand that. But if you want a WLW main ship, why don’t you read a book with a WLW main ship? Those do exist. I know they’re in the minority but they do exist. So instead of complaining and complaining, why don’t you find a book with a WLW main ship so you can feel repsresented, but also stay in the TSC fandom if you enjoy the stories or certain characters? I’ll give you some example WLW main ship books: Huntress, Annie on my Mind, Ash, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, A Line in the Dark, You Should See Me In A Crown. Those are a few I know of, sorry if they’re not your type of book. Anyway, so before any of you come at me and say wHaT WLW mAiN sHiP bOoKs? I’ve given you some examples. I know WLW is very much a minority in books and that should be addressed but please can people stop complaining and complaining about it. I understand that it’s a pain when in a book series you love, you can barely relate, but there’s so many books out there that you can relate to! It just gets overwhelming to see post after post after post shipping non cannon WLW ships to a point where it’s just kind is strange? (Eg Tessa x Jessamine - Jessamine liked her brother?). Honestly, I don’t mind people shipping the ships they love but please don’t force the opinion onto others. I’ve seen that when someone says something like what I’ve said, people jump down their throats and accuse them of not liking WLW. I like girls as well ok? So please don’t come at me.
Honestly just why do some of you feel the need to fight and argue and complain? Why can’t you use Tumblr for what it was intended for? A platform for fandoms and fun. Not a war site for animosity and hate towards others. I honestly feel like a parent having to put some of you in line, with this post. I hate doing this but someone had to say it. Sorry if I’ve offended anyone on my rant but the TSC fandom is out of control, and Tumblr just isn’t the same anymore. It’s not fun and it makes people scared to go into the fandom. It’s at the point now where I come onto Tumblr and straight away just think, ‘What ship war is it today?’ or Whatever argument is it today?’.
Please don’t make the TSC fandom toxic and a horrible space to be in - if you are going to argue with someone, just a take a moment and think ‘Is it worth it? Is it worth creating all this tension and animosity and upset?’ I think you’ll find the answer is no.
Thank you for listening and reading through the whole thing (if you did). It’s a long post I know, and I’m sorry. I’m just sick of the TSC fandom turning into Instagram and Tiktok, what with all the wars and arguments.