#imveryclueless

[the-queer-and-beloved]

I identify as queer because when I was figuring out everything, including gender, there wasn’t a label that fit me. And now I’ve found the community that I love.

I love the queer community and the acceptance they bring :)

-Kiwi 🥝

We’re Here, We’re Queer

[realtransfacts]

So I’ve identified as genderqueer for a while, and I’m starting to question again. I think I might be a gnc Woman or something like that. Do you have any advice?

My advice would be to consider switching to identifying as a gnc woman, if you feel that’s more fitting! Your gender can change sometimes, as can your understanding of it, so you don’t have to stick to the same labels forever.

It’s also possible to be a genderqueer/nonbinary woman, if you think you could be some combination of the two.

If any of my followers have any other advice or suggestions, please feel free to add to this post!

[fischyplier]

Does Amy have a twitch channel?

Yes she does! Her Twitch is PlanetPeebs. Thanks for asking! <3

[lgbt-aesthetics]

Can you please make me a nonbinary space and ocean themed phone background without a flag? I would really appreciate it.

I hope you like it!

[shapeshiftersvt]

Hello. I was wondering about the full length binders. I know that some chubbier people who bind have a hard time wearing most full length binders because the binder over the stomach is too tight. Is that an issue that people find with your binders?

Hello!

Part of our custom fitting process is to flare out a full-length binder over the stomach. We ask for a waist measurement on full-lengths specifically to make it comfortable to wear! Ideally, there should be no compression happening at the very bottom hem of the binder- if the bottom hem is squeezing, it’s going to try to roll up.

Caveat: Everyone’s body is different, and custom sizing is often tricky over the internet! Sometimes we flare too much, sometimes too little. This is why everyone gets one free alteration after they’ve tried their Shapeshifters binder on. 

-Ark

[transgenderadvice]

Hello. I'm AFAB genderfluid and I have a bit of a problem. My chest is very asymmetrical. When I'm wear a bra, I use an insert to minimize the visibility of the difference. But when I bind, my chest still looks very uneven. Do you have any advice?

Bambi Says:

hi! i definitely understand binding when hving an uneven chest (one side is a whole cup size bigger than the other). one thing that works for me is being careful when putting on my binder and making sure that both sides are being compressed safely and properly, and trying to adjust everything so that the larger side is kind of compressed more? i also try to remeber that nobody has a symmetrical chest (even if they appear to) and the fact that mine is assymentrical is okay and natural. hopefully this is helpful ??

[demigenderfriends]

I'm deminonbinary and I always feel fake because I don't really have body dysphoria. I have social dysphoria, but everyone always talks about body dysphoria like it's something that every mom cis person feels.

I’m sorry - feeling fake is always awful!

You’re not the first person to feel that way, not by a long shot. The site Everyday Feminism published a comic about specifically this a while ago called “You Can Still Be Transgender and Not Feel Physical Dysphoria, and Here’s Why”, and it talks a bit about the history of it - it came from an era when trans people were fairly unknown and surgery for trans people was largely in the hands of those who did not understand ... well, how gender works, period.

Your gender is real. You are trans enough whether you experience body dysphoria or not, whether you experience social dysphoria or not, whether you experience gender euphoria or not - these are all things that some trans people feel, and you don’t have to feel any of them to know what your gender is. Hugs if you want them, and stay strong. <3

- mod robin

[lgbtq-unity-blog]

Hey, what is duranonbinary?

Duragender: A polygender/genderfluid identity that involves a stable, long-lasting component. For example, a duranonbinary person might feel that their identity is fluid, but always involves a major nonbinary component.