#infp feeling

[its-me-aki]

Relatable ?

[my-infp-world]

Random INFP Feeling #63

The feeling of loneliness even when I have people around me is the strangest feeling. And the guilt that comes with it is overwhelming.

[infpconfessionsoflife]

Hi, this might not be an INFP thing but I’m gonna vent. Idk what it is, but anytime I get the tiniest amount of attention from a guy or he’s just being nice, I start catching feels. It might have to do with the fact that no one has ever really liked me but maybe not. It’s so weird cuz I feel so bare minimum like someone is just being a basic human being and I feel butterflies??? It’s like are you craving male attention that badly? Anyways, sorry for being annoying love ur blog

Hello Friend,

Well to be honest, it does feel nice having attention from the opposite sex. And sometimes they can be polite and it can be construed as flirting. I don't know how old you are anon, but if you are at the age that you are seeing others dating, you may be feeling like you would like that too. I would get all hot and run the other direction when guys paid attention to me in my mid teens to early twenties lol. So I don't think it is uncommon.

Does anyone else have anything to add?

[infpconfessionsoflife]

When people accidentally hurt me physically when we are joking, and say sorry over and over again bcs of it and i say its okay because it is not that bad, i often feel guilty. I feel guilty because they keep saying sorry even tho it’s fine. I’m afraid they will start treating me differently and more careful, I want them to treat me like a close friend or something like that. I feel guilty because i feel like i make them uncomfortable around me. Do you understand me? Sorry it might be confusing, but any of u feel like this? xoxo

[winterune]

I had a feeling this was going to happen. But even though I've had that feeling, I didn't do anything to prevent it. I'm just not cut out for this... but that's what someone who's given up would say. Have I given up? Rather, I think I haven't even tried that hard yet. Sigh... i feel so miserable. I'm really disappointed in myself. I just want everything to stop.

[infpconfessionsoflife]

I think the celebrity crush thing might be true with INFPs! I used to have those all the time before I got an actual real life crush. And I've been like this my entire life so, yeah, you're not alone on that one lol

Hello INFP!

Yes, I can even attest to this one! I figured out why though for me!! Reading more on how we idealize people and romance, an actor that I thought was just perfect would be my crush. Because the roles they took were often (what I like) very princely and honorable, hence leading to the fantasy of a perfect relationship. Leaving real life crushes in the dust lol Now that I am older I still find actors attractive and fangirl here there but know that reality is reality. ;)