#insecruity

[call-me-crazo]

THE I WOULD SHOW MY FACE BUT...im ugly©

[samthesmartcookie]

Women are such an innocent human beings. They need to be reminded that they are beautiful, strong, and incredible. Alas, they forget who they really are. They have such problems called insecurities. That is why they simply have a little trust issue. But then, once you have her heart, all of her is yours.

You just have to keep on reminding her how wonderful she is. And when she fears her insecurities, you calm her with your back and convince her that everything is gonna be okay. 

[marvelownsmylife]

Avengers Preferences

Their Insecurities part 1 

Bucky- Bucky is insecure about his left arm. He only sees that shiny metal as weapon. He hates it. He doesn’t like to touch you or anyone else with it. You try to show him that even though he may not like it, but his arm is a part of him. You let him know just how much you love him everyday and try to pay special attention to his arm. Sometimes you purposely sit to his left so you can hold his hand in yours. You’ll bring it up to your lips and place a kiss to each knuckle and then his palm. When you’re both in bed, you always make him leave his shirt off. He hates his scars and where the flesh of his chest meets metal. You make sure to kiss every scar on his body, especially that deep scar. He’ll look at you like you’re his entire world as you do and he’ll feel your smile against his skin. You make sure he knows you love every inch of him including his arm.

Tony- Tony is always afraid you’ll leave him. Even though you do your best to assure him that you could never leave his side, it’s one of his biggest fears. He is insecure about his bouts of PTSD. He feels weak and hates that you have to see him like that during his episodes. Sometimes you spend the whole day with him, just cherishing your time together. He usually hides out in his lab when he’s having a rough day and you have ways of knowing when he needs you (Jarvis). You’ll walk up behind him and kiss his neck as you wind your arms around his waist. That’s usually all it takes for him to open up to you about how he’s feeling. You’ll spend the rest of the day letting Tony hold you close in bed while you hold him just as close. He’ll rest his head on your chest and snuggle up to you just to feel your heart beating. You’ll run your fingers through his hair until sleep finally claims you both.

Steve- Steve is most insecure about his body, oddly enough. He feels like he’s someone he’s not. The serum changed his body so quickly, that he didn’t really have time to process all the changes. He may not miss his illnesses, but sometimes he misses his old body. You’ll catch him stepping out of the shower in his towel staring in the mirror as he runs his hands down his chest. It makes your heart clench to see him like this. You know exactly how he feels to feel uncomfortable in your own skin, so you both try your best to make each other feel confident. You walk up and put yourself between him and the mirror. Reaching up to cup his face in both your hands, you’ll kiss him softly pouring every ounce of emotion into it so that he knows he’s loved. Sometimes you’ll feel his tears wet your cheeks and you’ll wrap him up in your arms as you whisper your reassurance and love for him into his ear. Once he relaxes he’ll give you a soft smile before you show him exactly how much you love his body as you lead him to bed.

Thor- Thor is most insecure about being a leader. He fears that he will fail Asgard. You do your best to comfort him and let him know that he is a mighty warrior who would do anything for his kingdom. You might notice him staring out at all of Asgard absentmindedly after a battle or maybe even before. You know then exactly what is running through his mind. You call him “my prince” and take his hand, rubbing your thumb back and forth to sooth him. He will smile and pull you in for a gentle kiss while resting his forehead to yours. You’ll tell him that no matter what decisions he makes, you know he has his people’s best interests in mind. He’ll hold you closer and take comfort in your presence as he comes down or prepares for battle. He will be a great king one day and you treat him as such every single day.

Hey guys! I was working on a Bucky x reader fic today and almost had it finished when my computer froze and it got lost :( , So I decided to post preferences today and I’ll work on that fic again maybe on Sunday or Monday. I’m out of town tomorrow. This will be part one so give me some feedback and if you guys have any prompts send them my way! :) 

[sadbih0426]

I am so fat and disgusting

[judgeme]

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i don’t think my girlfriend loves me anymore. we have been living together over summer between our university courses as we are at universities at different cities. we have had sex twice over the passed two months. i love her. she says she loves me. a few weeks prior to me coming down to live here she met a guy through one of our friends in her city. they took MDMA and went to a festival where he felt her up and she insisted she had a boyfriend and she says that was that. she keeps messaging him though. whenever i express the fact that this makes me uncomfortable with her she gets defensive, explaining that she doesn’t want “that kind of relationship” and wants to “be free”. she tells me i’ll probably get on with the guy when i meet him. i wish she’d defend me as much as she does him. 

just before we started university, around two years ago, we briefly broke up. she was scared about having a long distance relationship. after breaking up with me she had slept with a guy who she previously claimed was just a friend when i had similar worries. after i heard i slept with one of my friends who was also one of her friends. i don’t know if i still hold resentment towards my girlfriend. i don’t know if i ever got over it. she still keeps one of his t-shirts. she also gets jealous when i talk to girls, even though i only have a small handfull of female friends that i did not meet through my girlfriend. regarding one girl she  went as far to ask “do you fancy her”, with a straight face. i insisted that i didn’t and found it annoying that she’d think this of me.

i’m working two jobs in an expensive to live in city hundreds of miles away from where i go to university. this  seems like a lot of effort to put in for someone who won’t stop texting a person she’s met three times in person to make me feel a little more comfortable. i know it’s wrong to ask her to stop texting this guy but i don’t know. i have no problems with her having male friends, at all. she has several of male friends who i think are fantastic people, because when she met them they didn’t establish the fact they wanted to sleep with her, like this guy did. she thinks i’m stupid for being worried. she says if i met him i’d understand because “he’s like that with every girl” and that the only reason he did it with her was because she was “the only girl there”. this information doesn’t make me feel better about the situation. 

i am not proud to admit i have read several of her online chats with the guy. although most of it is innocent, sending links to cat videos etc. i can’t help but feel a cold sharp pain in my chest whenever she sends kisses (xxxx) or discuss something like sex, or porn. do not get me wrong there’s no proof in the messages, i just can’t help but think that if she were single that she’d sleep with him as soon as she got a chance. we both know that he would. also literally whenever someone mentions anything to do with cats she brings this guy into conversation. i dont think shes sent me a link for anything in the passed year. she insists that this is because we’re usually with eachother but we both work. and when she gets a break she’s messaging him. never me. i don’t know what i expect from writing this down. please don’t judge me. 

if anyone has any advice please message me. 

[blue-eyes-and-jazz]

I'm very insecure about my body and it really sucks...

[aggressivelovingpain-blog]

Girls in my year

I’m not BLACK... I am just NATURALLY TAN SKIN 😂 You colour blind?

[penseesprivees]

I came across this quote today:

"Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing." - Helen Keller 

It is an old quote, 1957, but today was the first time I came across it and it made me think. We take security as the norm to live by and unwilling to take risks so that we can remain the same and stay secure.