I have the personality that I’m always nice and polite to everyone. No matter who you are. It’s a good and bad thing. It’s good because sometimes it just makes me happy to see people that were previously having a bad day and I say something nice and they light up like I gave them a puppy. However there are quite a few bad sides. If I’m nice to guys then they think I’m flirting and if I deny it, then I’m a cold bitch. It also opens a lot of opportunities for people to take advantage of me. I like to help others, but some people just take my kindness to far. People also assume that if I’m nice most of the time, then I am nice all of the time. I’m human, I have bad days like everyone else. I have one bad day and I’m automatically damned into being the cold bitch and can never live it down.
My advice to anyone who reads this: try and be kind at least to one person a day. It can go a long way. Chain reactions. One person can turn into ten people and so on. If you know someone who is habitually a nice person, give them a break, we all have bad days. Be kind right back at them. Trust me, it feels really nice and a lot of times makes my day, if someone is nice back at me.
I doubt anyone will read this 2 a.m. insomnia ramble. But please take this into consideration.