Apr 23, 2023
reparenting Can't be the solution to parentalization. like. i had to parent myself so the only solution is??? i have to parent myself again????????
no offense but I'm actually fucking tired of doing that?
(i also get pissed at the idea that the correct response to loneliness is learning to be alone. that's in direct opposition to how Human Beings Work).
#just shit that frustrates me#part of it is me based#like I'm aware that i have to do work here#but i get so pissed when ppl try to wedge their bootstrap up my ass like. please#the PROBLEM is that i cant rely on anyone! or open up! you think the solution is to MAKE IT WORSE?????#i DID the self sufficiency thing!!!#that's kinda the fucking problem!#and yes yes absolutely inner child shit HELPS#i simply and absolutely resent the notion that health and sanity looks like doing it all on your own#that's puritan ass colonizer mentality please get away from me with it#interdependence is not codependence#interdependence is the fucking point#anti colonialism#rad#bpd#borderline#inner child#reparenting#parentalization#abandonment trauma#yeehaw#my life improved once i realized i could just reject that tho#inclusivetherapists.com is the foreal#unfortunately ppl ain't taking my insurance much but we getting there#therapy#rest is radical#self preservation is a revolutionary act