#intertransphobia

[thisis-intersexism]

Whenever I present masc my broad shoulders, body hair and other traits from hyperandrogenism are praised, but when I present fem people ask if i’m “detransitioning” and insist I should be dysphoric about those features

This is intersexism and intermisogyny.

Having those features does not inherently mean you have to exclusively be masculine, or that presenting femme means that you're detransitioning. Gender presentation is nuanced and individual. Broad shoulders, body hair or any other androgen-influenced trait is not inherently masculine, and it does not bar you from femininity.

[vinterfeminism]

There are many many many people on this website who need to learn the difference between loving intersex people and fetishizing intersex people. And especially loving intersex transfems and fetishizing intersex transfems.

[thisis-intersexism]

the entire way i was raised. being msn autistic and intersex and not knowing either of those until my teen years. being a failure of a girl but not allowed to be anything else so i just keep trying and trying to be a better girl but i was never meant to fit that standard. my body being subjected to bullying from my family and 'friends'. too much hair, too many scars and acne, too masculine in every aspect, nose and feet and shoulders are just like my dads. only reason i was seen as female was becayse i have long hair and girls still were scared of me in girls washroom when i wore a hoodie. even now as i identify as transfem most in the community hate me. i see a funny transfem meme and i have to think does the person who made it accept me in community or intend the meme for people like me. i like a persons post and check their blog and all their bio reads is tma theyfabs dni. even in real life im scared to bring up my experiences to anyone but my one friend. this is a very good blog for people like me and im glad its here. thank you for running this.

this is intermisogyny.

I'm glad you're here anon 🫂 this blog is made for you, you're welcome.