#intersex pride

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my own friend said that due to me being reassigned male after birth , i cannot be a girl

he supports intersex trans girls , trans girls in general actually, but he said

"i cannot see a way for u to be feminine , ur too manly, u have potential to be non binary or any other stuff , just not that."

im never coming out to anyone again. Im never saying im intersex to anyone again, im never saying my asab to someone i trust again

this is an asshole

intersexism sure, but that friend was an asshole

you are whatever you think you are

fuck them, be you🫂

Don’t trust me on this? My ex told me I could never be intersex or a trans man because I needed to stay a girl for him, naturally I left. I was “too masculine” as is so I had to be a girl to balance it out???

Fuck people who don’t support you. Someone will, I came out to my bisexual bestie the next day and got instant good feedback

[is-this-intersexism]

Intersexism & intersex erasure is seeing people say the h slur is primarily directed at (perisex) transgender people, or saying itʻs a trans slur and not a slur against intersex people

this is intersexism

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this isn't a question as I know it is intersexism. hopefully I did the plaintext right

but the fact that we are constantly just never brought up (or only as a talking points, gotchas, etc).

like we really are just standing in the corner like: "hey you forgot about us🧍"

[plaintext: like we really are just standing in the corner like "hey, you forgot about us. person awkwardly standing emoji".]

if I see one more person say LGB or LGBT instead of LGBTQIA2s+. I'm gonna. cry or smth idk.

[plaintext: if I see one more person say lgb or lgbt instead of lgbtqia2s+, I'm gonna cry or something, I don't know.]

this is intersexism

agreed and I think you did pretty good

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does this count?

i was looking up intersex deer. I was drawing a furry deer and I had an idea to make them intersex, so I looked up "Intersex deer" for a reference. and then I looked at the titles of the photos and it made me so sad. "he-she deer", "hermaphrodite deer", "whitetail freaks". I know they're animals and maybe you do call them that, but it hurt and stung really bad. it made me feel really sad

this is intersexism

just because they are an animal doesn’t mean they don’t deserve respect, this is good to point out

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i follow many intersex blogs, and they get asks where people talk about their variations. I Google them and... why are all the images of the variations having tools prodding at them? or being mutilated? I know why (intersexism and more I'm too tired to remember) but it makes me deeply sad and uncomfortable. like ..can we just..have normal images of the variations (not to say there aren't).

this is intersexism

just because we have normal implications doesn’t mean there aren’t horrible ones we need to advocate for

[is-this-intersexism]

i know this is something many have said.

but, futa. fucking futanari . like it makes me want to bang my head on a fucking wall.

is all you think of us just.. some sexual fantasy? (this isn't me dunking on sexual fantasy, but rather the fact we intersex people are reduced to a thing for sex...also the "you" is about intersexist people, not "you" as in is-this-intersexism).

maybe I'm not qualified to talk as I only have PMOS but it just pisses me off very bad and disheartens me.

this is intersexism

you are as qualified as we are, all of us are,

we are not sex objects

We deserve respect

we are allowed to say that, thanks for venting

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I currently have random person under my post telling me that I'm not playing my cards right for not bringing pericis straight men up in a post where I talk about my experience as someone who's phenotypically male, intersex and pregnant. they told me that it's not fair that I didn't mention how depressed straight binary men (who cannot get pregnant) get when they have children. and I feel like they're trying to guilt trip me for not making my post (about medical intersexism) about pericis straight men who just became fathers. they said that it's a bad politician/candidate move or smth and nobody's gonna elect me if I ignore pericis people? (help I don't know what politics have to do with anything. I study archeology ?? 😭)

this is intersexism

while men can have depression after becoming fathers(not pregnancy way) the post was about medical intersexism

it’s not what the post is about, that’s like saying because a black man experiences racism we should discuss women’s rights in the post

like no???? That’s not the topic????

Your doing great, ignore the haters

[tardigradetv]

I saw 3 huge intersex pride posters in my area today 🥺