I was trying to decide if I wanted to address your first ask, from Thursday, and then I received this second ask from yesterday. I’ve both ignored and responded to many messages of yours in the past, but I realized that I haven’t drawn a line with you, and I can’t expect people to read my mind, so I’m going reply to these so that my feelings are clear.
I don’t appreciate these types of messages. I care a lot about this blog and the community here, but I have a life outside of it that is very full and busy and I unfortunately don’t have the same kind of time as I used to. While I'm still dedicated to this blog/project, I feel no shame in prioritizing my personal life and the people in it. While I share some things about my personal life, there’s a lot I don’t share and I have a lot of obligations and work that leaves me with little free time (and I have social plans and other hobbies that I like to enjoy, too!). Messages like these are not encouraging; they actually discourage me from wanting to work on art and post here.
I know asks like this, especially based on prior asks that you’ve sent, can often come from a place of enjoying my art and wanting more of it, which I appreciate. But I do not appreciate micromanaging/shaming messages like this. If you send more in this vein, I will block you.
I didn’t mind engaging with your asks in the past, but I think it’s set a bad precedent for you, so I’ll give you a blanket statement now for some scenarios that may occur: if a post is scheduled outside of my usual time, it’s because I was too busy at work to schedule one for the usual time and so I picked a later time; If there’s not an update on a typical update day, I feel bad but just wasn’t able to have something ready; If it’s an update day without new art and I don't post an IPPnaming post, it’s because I wasn’t interested or prepared to do so; if I miss one of my usual reblogs, regardless of the day, I was unusally busy that day.
No hard feelings, but this is your clear message to stop with stuff like this. I really dislike blocking people that are trying to engage in good faith and I don't want to turn off my anonymous asks, so this is your warning. I won't be replying to these type of asks agains, you'll just be blocked.












