Practise Putting God first and your Spouse Second; START begins with putting God first in your life.If I asked you what is the most important thing in your life and you said God,is there evidence to prove that is true?If I looked at your calendar,what would I see?How much of your life is set aside to spend time with God?I was in a small group,and the leader that day asked us all to write down our top three priorities.Then we went around the table and each of us shared our list.Without exception,our lists were identical-God,family,work.We were all feeling pretty good about our answers until the leader asked us to open our daily calendars on our mobile devices and lay them on the table.Guess what?All of our calendars were almost identical,too - and none of us had time blocked off for God or family. Let me share something with you that I have found to be absolutely 100% true.When my relationship with God is where it needs to be,my relationship with my spouse will be too,and when my relationship with God is not where it needs to be neither is my relationship with my spouse.For me,putting God first looks something like this.starting and ending my day with Him.I seek His wisdom.I pray for my marriage and my family.I filter everything that happens in my day through Him.He is first.Then and only then do I keep my spouse where i want them to be. God is my one.my spouse is my two. That is what START is all about. Ask God to show you what it means to put Him first each and every day.Then with His help start the process. #newyear#newgoals#newdreams#revolutionizeyourmarriage#isallaboutfixing#fixyourmarriage#wearethefixers @peebriggs @estherbriggs_estydion228 @thefixersng (at Lagos, Nigeria) https://www.instagram.com/p/BsIF5Zfhvzh/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1wmvaw2ltlvkd