i’m not saying that you don’t sometimes have to bury things to deal with more immediate problems because sometimes you just have to do that. but the way the world lauds how people can go through something horrible and how they just shove it down and keep going without discussing the fact that that shit comes back up to play whack-a-mole with you if you don’t deal with it (and sometimes even when you do) drives me insane. that shit don’t just go away. the longer it stays buried the harder it hits when it comes back up and says ‘surprise, bitch’.
why does everyone miss that step when they’re praising how well some people are ‘digging in to keep going despite the horrors of the world’????



















