#it's mad

[sugden-dingling]

i was already so head over heels in love with robron's 2014-2019 story and as heartbroken as i was to have to let them go i was so satisfied and full of love for them

but to get to have them back 6 years later?? and to get the kind of quality content that we're getting right now??? where it's all about the inevitability of the all-consuming life-altering epic love that they have????

grateful doesn't even cover it

[beaft]

I’m a cis woman, but I felt similarly about my chest for a long time. I got a reduction last year which removed something like 3/4 of my breast tissue. Despite it not being a Gender Thing, I also had relatives tell me I was mutilating my body. The morning of my surgery, I tried to talk myself out of it. “They’re not that bad, I’ve lived with them for twenty years, I can live with them for the rest of my life.” But I went through with it and I’m so glad I did. I didn’t realize just how bad my body dysphoria actually was until after surgery.

All of this is to say, you’re making the right choice, you won’t regret it, and anyone telling you you’re mutilating yourself is wrong. Just make sure you follow your surgeon’s instructions to the letter. No smoking, no alcohol, consume plenty of protein, and take it extremely easy for a few weeks.

it's really interesting to get a perspective from someone who got a similar procedure done for different reasons! i'm glad you were able to ease your dysphoria, and also sorry to hear that your family gave you such a hard time about it. the attitudes that some people have towards breasts are crazy to me - they're treated like some kind of ~sacred symbol of womanhood~, when in reality they're just a regular body part that you should be able to adjust (or get rid of) in whatever way makes you feel happy and healthy.

anyway -- thank you so much for this, i appreciate it <3 i have given up smoking (4 weeks now!) and i'll give up alcohol just as soon as i finish the last can of pink gin i have in the fridge hehe

[tadaxii-i]

I just realized my history teacher looks severely like Muriel from GO

[undergoing-mitosis]

*deep breath*

EMPTY YOUR MIND OF ANY THEORIES TILL ALL THE FACTS ARE IN START AT THE END OF ALL YOUR QUERIES TO LEARN WHERE THINGS BEGIN YOU ANALYSE BY WORKING BACKWARDS EFFECTS REVEAL THEIR CAUSE FOR EVEN PERFECT CRIMES HAVE PERFECT FLAWS THE CALCULUS OF A SOLUTION WHILE CHANGING STAYS THE SAME THE STRONGER MIND AND EVOLUTION DETERMINE WHO WINS THE GAME I POKE AND PROD TO FIND A WEAKNESS WHERE THE BEND BECOMES THE ✨break✨ AND MAKE THE MOST OF KIRA'S FIRST MISTAAAAAKE THE GAME BEGINS THE SAME WAY I LOOK FOR PATTERNS ON A SCREEN COLLECTING BITS OF DATA TILL I FIND OUT WHAT THEY MEAN THE GAME BEGINS

*dies*

[hella1975]

one (1) bout of stress and my body is immediately like babygirl ur about to get eczema in places you didnt even know you could get eczema

[sweetsubharry]

okay but Louis as a judge on tv gives off the biggest daddy/dom vibes ever

[malyen0retsev]

“Last time you saw me, you wanted me to come to Winterfell. Took the long road, but...”

OK, ANALYSIS OF THIS THANKS.

This is Gendry referencing a conversation from years ago, bringing up their long and complex history, trying to open up again to this girl who was his best friend. It’s long been acknowledged that Arya wanting Gendry to come to Winterfell, and saying “I can be your family”, was a declaration of love on her behalf. She was in love with him.

Sure, Gendry could literally be just reminding her he eventually realised Winterfell was the right place for him to be - just like how much as Arya was in love with Gendry in Season 3, she did quite literally want him to come with her.

But equally, when you consider the heart eyes Gendry has been giving Arya throughout 801 and 802, and how he’s literally looking at her like she’s the moon when she leans down to kiss him... I personally think you can read this on the same metaphorical level.

Gendry saying to Arya that he took the long road to get here, but got here in the end, isn’t just him saying about how he’s physically in Winterfell.

He’s talking about how it took him a long time to realise she was in love with him, because Gendry’s game (I love him, but god) is extremely terrible; and it took longer still for him to realise he was in love with her. It’s taken a long time for him to work everything out, but saying that to Arya is Gendry saying - “I’m here now, and I love you. And I’m sorry it took so long for me to realise this.”