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In his own ship, mind you.

#its been a while since i had so many silly tags #im getting better and better at drawing them #project hail mary #ryland grace #rocky the eridian #rocky phm #grace phm #phm

okkkk intergalactic meet cute..

#project hail mary #phm movie #phm #rocky phm #rocky the eridian #ryland grace #my art #drew this a while ago been struggling to color it #idk #just slapped something down and im calling it a day atp #im not super happy with the lines i think i draw grace better now #but my boyfriend says its really good and i should still post it so im trying to trust

Happy another homestuck day for those who still practice it

#homestuck #john egbert #dave strider #rose lalonde #jade harley #karkat vantas #terezi pyrope #vriska serket #and the rest #piece i did for the sahconzine that was never released in what 2020? cant remember #and i think i never posted here????#its been a very long while anyway i like this one #indigoniteart #another case of nico redrawing religious pieces bc i guess i do that

#merlin #bbc merlin #digital art #my art #arthur pendragon #morgana pendragon #hello tumblr its been a while

surely this counts as ninja training

#my art #naruto #team 7 #uchiha sasuke #uzumaki naruto #hatake kakashi #haruno sakura #anyway happy December everyone!!! its been winter in my part of Canada for a while but its officially the time of year when people delight #in the snow instead of complaining about how its an early winter haha #the boys are in hockey skates because kakashi didn't want them to trip on the toe pick or attack each other with the toe pick

I never saw people say stuff like this enough when I was a teenager, so I’m saying it now.

I’m in my mid-thirties and I have never had sex. I’ve thought about it and could have had one or two opportunities if I put in more effort, but I always decided against it because I just wasn’t into it at the time.

I can safely say that I do not feel I have missed out on anything. I was perfectly capable, by myself, of learning about my own body and boundaries without anyone else there to muddy the waters. The immense pressure that was there in my teens/twenties to Have Sex Just Do It is basically gone. I’m vibing. I’ve got my routine by myself in bed that I enjoy, and that’s enough for me.

And in the unlikely event that I ever decide to have sex with someone in the future, I don’t feel at all like I’m lacking some essential Knowledge or Skill that would “make it good” for someone else. I fully expect to ask my partner out loud what they like and to receive an answer clearly communicated and to relax and have fun. And if it’s a disappointing experience, I’m fine with that too. It is what it is.

Sex is just not that big of a deal. I suspected it as a teen, and I’m more sure of it now. It’s fine to have it or not have it. It’s whatever.