#its crazy!!!!

[toadcircus]

hello im

testosterone circus now

[angelguk]

I just wanna bring up how men nowadays are so cheap and expect the woman to go half on a date. What happened to courting someone the proper way? And then they says well it’s equality, both pay. Like no hoe it’s your obligation to pay. lmfao no but seriously what’s the deal?

!!!!!!!! like it truly truly pains them to spend money on a woman. mind you i've taken the time to do my makeup (which costs money), get an outfit (money!), and the risk of my life being on the date with him :/ my recent situationship asked me to split on drinks with him the first date and my eye twitched immediately like i lost a lot of respect for him there

i think men are aware than the bar is so low (beyond hell atp) that they can get away with as little investment into a date and still receive some sort of intimacy (whether it be physical or just your time and attention). idk whether its due to society being hypersexual or something (anybody with articles i can read on this please send) but men typically try and avoid emotional attachment. i know people might say "ohh it's in their biology to be detached and seeking multiple partners" but i honestly do not think it is at all (this leads to a bigger question about love.... which let's not get into that rn but here's a good video essay if you're interested in the topic)

if i may make an assumption i think the whole emotional detachment thing is because male relationships (platonic/family) do not allow room for mourning/grief/sadness. those are all assumed to be feminine behaviours and thats why i think men end up later on settling but still harbouring feelings for exes. many male friendships are based on activities done together and not on emotional bonding. the number of times i've had conversations with men are this are ridiculous because they are aware of it and still don't do anything to break. hence the whole as little investment into dating because who is going to give them the space to deal with their emotions afterward. but anyway... if thats how they want to be

[captaintoughfluff]

i wish i had confidence man

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[kawakona]

It’s like there’s people out there who can FEEL when I am getting discouraged on writing or something because once it happens BOOOMMMMM awesome people come out of nowhere to write me such nice comments on my fic and ohgawd today I was thinking ‘Maybe this wasnt such a good idea after all~’ and just a little later someone left such a nice comment on my fic TTuTT Uguhh... thank you so much! And I keep realizing again and again how many awesome people I have made friends with on the internet or COULD BECOME friends with if I wasn’t too shy xD (but I am always afraid I’ll scare people away by being tooooo hearty and toooo open and toooo clingy tooo fast!!) It’s unbelievable! People have been so nice to me lately and I appreciate it so much!!!! It’s crazy how much something on the internet can mean to you when you should be much more busy worrying about your real life...but then again.... It makes a lot of sense to me sometimes when I am feeling low and all the kindness of you guys just pulls me out of my awfully bad feelings again! Thank you all so much!!!!

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