I tried to be supportive and understanding to you, but here we go. You want to talk about invalidation? The word you just discovered a couple seconds ago? Try being Black for two seconds you stupid bitch. Do you think invalidation only applies to queer people?From the second I was fucking born and everyday after it MY FUCKING EXISTENCE HAS BEEN INVALIDATED. Do you really think that because I’m not openly and visibly queer to the world that I’ve never experienced this? I LITERALLY CAN’T ESCAPE IT YOU STUPID FUCKING BANDWAGON FAUX ACTIVIST BITCH. I GET MISGENDERED AT WORK, I’VE BEEN MISGENDERED SINCE ELEMENTARY SCHOOL. I AM A BLACK WOMAN. ALOT OF BLACK WOMEN GET MISGENDERED BECAUSE THEY DON’T HAVE STEREOTYPICAL “FEMININE” FEATURES. PEOPLE WOULD LITERALLY COME UP TO ME ASK ME IF I WAS A BOY OR A GIRL OR STRAIGHT UP JUST DEFAULT ME TO BEING A BOY BECAUSE I HAD DEFINED MUSCLE TONE AND A “BOY” HAIRSTYLE. OR “CORN ROLLS” AS YOU THINK THEY ARE CALLED. TRY BEING MISGENDERED FOR 15 YEARS THEN TALK TO ME. AND THEN WAIT ANOTHER 21 BECAUSE ON TOP OF THAT IS MY BLACK SKIN. THE SKIN THAT WAS SPIT ON, STABBED BY WITH PENCILS (STRAIGHT TO THE THIGH) HAD DIRT CLUMPS THROWN AT, HAD ROCKS THROWN AT, BEAT ON BY BOYS ALL THROUGHOUT MY SCHOOL YEARS. MY SKIN THAT WAS EVERYDAY SUBLTY OR OUTRIGHT TOLD WAS GROSS AND NOBDOY WANTED TO EVEN TOUCH ME. AND MY HAIR THAT HAS BEEN TOLD IS UGLY, HAS BUGS AND TRASH THROWN IN, TOUCHED BY COMPLETE STRANGERS! YOU LITERALLY DON’T KNOW SHIT ABOUT BEING INVALIDATED COMPARED TO MY LITERAL LIFE. IT’D BEEN, WHAT, A YEAR FOR YOU? SO WHEN SOMEONE LIKE ME TRIES TO GIVE YOU ADVICE ON HOW TO DEAL WITH BEING INVALIDATED, FUCKING TAKE IT BITCH OR DO NOT COME AT ME LIKE YOU DID. AND DON’T YOU EVER TELL ME THAT I DON’T KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE INVALIDATED. GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY FACE. I WAS BLACK LONG BEFORE YOU WERE QUEER. TAKE SEVERAL SEATS BECAUSE IT’S GONNA BE A LONG RIDE FOR YOU JUST LIKE IT IS FOR ME YOU MORONIC, NONSENSICAL, WITLESS FUCKING BITCH.