It’s awful, for me. Friends warned me that’s it’s just a way to find sex, which honestly, I’m ok with. What I’m not ok with is trying to connect with a person based on a couple of photos and maybe a two sentence description. It’s just not for me. Multiple times I ran out of people to swipe. It’s my fault. I was being extremely picky and judgmental.
Looking for some combo of:
-27 to 32, tall, bearded, on a bike, with a guitar, skinny jeans, tattoos, edgy, with hair. I know it’s like every hipster douche ever, but, I like what I like.
Deal Breakers:
- sunglasses in your main pic (let me see your eyes!)
- holding a fish (some viral article said men holding fish are more likely to get a right swipe,
- look short (hey if we’re talking just about looks, I’m a tall lady, I prefer a tall man)
- blonde (again, i don’t know why this was a thing for me, IRL blonde guys can be cute, but on Tinder they just don’t do it for me)
-too many sports references, especially hockey (I like sports but I don’t want to talk sports on a date)
-that basic bitch look for men (hair short on the sides longer on top, flipped over with some product, a plaid button up with sleeves rolled up, maybe a vest or suspenders, neat beard, brown leather shoes/belt
- works in finance/is an “entrepreneur”/business school
-tank tops
-polo shirts
-guns
-motorcycles
After a week and a half I deleted it. It ended up being a total time suck. I matched with 6 people, wasn’t interested in them enough to actually initiate any conversation, and only one messaged me first. We exchanged a little chatting about something in one of my pics then it stopped. I didn’t go in with the right mindset.
It was also oddly hypnotic. I would be sitting up in bed and before I realized it 20 minutes had gone by and I hadn’t swiped right on a single guy. So it had to go.