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-Before they ever got together the both of them would be riddled with nightmares from their respective traumas, but the first time they’ve ever slept together was one of their most peaceful nights’ sleeps in years. The moment they woke up afterwards was one of the softest moments in their early-budding relationship.
-They usually switch places depending on whoever wants comfort that night, but normally Stephen will take the position of little spoon more often than not and Tony goes between being big spoon or his backpack. Stephen loves feeling the physical contact and the feeling of being kept safe throughout the night in Tony’s arms. Of course whenever Tony is the little spoon, he feels so secured with Stephen being snug against his back with his arms wrapped around his chest.
-Morning kisses are a requirement, even if Tony is still asleep, the moment Stephen wakes up he kisses him on the forehead delicately. Of course Tony usually wakes up soon after, but he prefers this wake up call to the usual alert from FRIDAY that he’s late for a meeting or the compound is on fire.
-Stephen is the blanket hog of the relationship, he gets very cold at night. Tony doesn’t mind too much since he’s a walking furnace.
-Nightmares are bound to happen with all they’ve been through, but if that ever happens they stay awake as long as they need, get tea/water if they need it, comfort one another until they’re calm enough to go back to sleep.
-Surprisingly Tony is an amazing cook, he doesn’t cook often due to how busy his life is all the time, but if he gets time he’ll make some of the best home-cooked meals (which he perfected over time while at MIT bc he slowly realized eating pizza and take out every night was not good for his health in the long run). His favorite meals to cook are casseroles and stews but if Stephen is having a particularly bad hand day, he’ll make assorted finger foods (which Stephen absolutely loves him for)
-Stephen used to be able to cook but since his accident, he hasn’t had the find hand coordination to make anything by himself but the Cloak is always there to help him out whenever he’s in charge of making lunch or dinner. He doesn’t bother with desert half the time since he has a crap ton of ice cream on hand.
-Tony’s favorite fast food is (obviously) cheeseburgers and Stephen’s favorite fast food are deli sandwiches (and occasionally sushi which he’s grown to love after being with Wong at the Sanctum for a while).
-Stephen loves ice cream, and while he denies that he doesn’t like Stark Raving Hazelnuts, he always keeps a pint of it in the freezer.
☠-Angry/Violent Headcanon
-Neither of them like arguing, neither of them like getting angry, but because of their respective egos colliding constantly, conflict arises every now and again. They do argue and it tends to get heated, but once voices start getting raised Stephen shrinks a little bit due to past trauma with his parents constantly shouting at him when he messes up or does something “wrong”. Tony doesn’t raise his voice often, he chooses to keep his cool no matter how hard it is, but either way he hates getting angry period.
-Stephen tends to let his temper get out of hand when he starts getting angry, so if he’s annoyed enough he’ll start shouting as much as he hates shouting, and he’ll get angry very very quick and it can take hours for him to cool off entirely. The moment he does cool off, he gets very apologetic. Stephen also has the tendency to start crying/tearing up when he gets angry, it’s something he’s annoyed about especially when he tries to make a point, but whenever Tony sees that he knows its a cue they need to stop.
-Tony doesn’t do well with shouting either, but he gets even more annoyed whenever the person he argues with tries to pull the whole “im not raising my voice therefore im better than you” bullshit. Luckily Stephen never does that.
-Stephen knows he has the tendency to push people away and he usually keeps that in check since he went to Kamar-Taj, but occasionally he’ll revert back to his usual temper and say things he doesn’t mean (which again, he apologizes for once his head is even but he feels so bad afterwards and it’s hard for Tony to stay mad for long)
-Hand kisses and forehead touches/kisses are an everyday thing, it’s a small gesture, but the both of them feel so warm and fuzzy whenever they’re greeted with small kisses. Tony is sure to be extra gentle if Stephen’s hands are acting up, which of course results in even more hand kisses than usual (which Stephen loves with his whole heart)
-Stephen loves physical contact, and he knows Tony hasn’t gotten a lot of it either in his past, so Stephen often initiates hugs from behind, touches around Tony’s neck and hair, holds his hands as best as he can. Tony absolutely loves how touchy Stephen gets and reciprocates whenever he sees Stephen is in a bad mood.
-Neither of them are into the huge romantic gestures like hearts and flowers, but on their anniversary they go all out. It’s not uncommon that their room ends up being full to the brim with flowers and chocolates (lactose free for Tony) On the other end, they usually share smaller gestures like holding hands while having breakfast, sharing small kisses while they work, hugging one another whenever they get back from a particularly dangerous mission.
-When they started dating, Stephen was very shy around him when it came to asking for hugs or kisses, but as they continued dating, Stephen doesn’t bother to ask when he needs a hug. Tony is happy to give them anyways.
-As I said before, morning kisses are absolutely necessary. No doubt about it. But also kisses before dinner, kisses before bed. They just want to show how much they love each other as often as possible since they’ve hardly been loved.
-They used to see sex as something serious, something they can’t joke about, but after a while they lost that facade of seriousness and aren’t afraid to giggle during sex, make stupid comments or jokes, and of course get extra intimate rather than keeping a serious demeanor the whole time. They love having those kinds of moments when they’re in such an emotional setting, it makes sex all the more meaningful to them.
Thanks for the ask!! Ya’ll keep them coming!!
