Your brother's gay, right? I'm just wondering if your family has openly accepted him or if he's been ostracized. Is he "seeking help" or has he come to accept himself? If you feel it's a personal thing you should talk about I understand, I was just curious.
We are currently completely accepting. As far as we know, he's not acting on it. We have a deal where my parents help pay for his college if he lives a Christian lifestyle. So even if he were doing something behind our backs, there's no way he'd tell us. He talks sincerely like he knows homosexual actions are wrong, but he's fighting against his desire to do it anyway. If he began a homosexual relationship openly, we'd...have to discuss it. We wouldn't allow them to visit us together, of course... Other than that, I'm not sure where we'd stand. But we'll always love him, and I'd miss him terribly, because he's truly one of my best friends.