My Outsiders OC John Dawson NSFW hcs ig:
So established fact he strongly prefers to side. His main reasoning is that tbh he doesn’t feel it very much topping or bottoming. When he does top or bottom it’s usually just for his partner or for the “aesthetic” I suppose. Like bottoming being a turn on for the purpose of further submission more than physically enjoying the act itself. Or topping because the visuals of his partner enjoying it is worth it. It’s very much so mental for him
Means he’s pretty quiet during sex a lot of the time unless he’s really locked in the mental part or the one getting stimulation like a handjob/oral
It also means he lasts a long time topping or bottoming. He’s usually finishing last and usually because he chooses to just jack himself off or lets and/or asks his partner take care of him
He does prefer to top and/or lead during sex almost always. He’s ok being more passive or rare occasions. Usually because he partner asks for it or it’s like a whole thing like he might want to dress more feminine for it
He is at his core a submissive though the way it feels best for him outwardly looks like dominance a lot. He considers it submission to service partners. So that might often mean topping and being the one to lead because he’s doing it from a place of submission. Additionally the times he is most dominant outside of that is in knowing it’s getting his partners off. Like if he’s fucking a guy’s throat really rough. He’s doing it cause it is a good confidence boost and feels get but also cause the guy wants to be physically dominated
He does strongly prefer masturbating over sex. Sex is more for his partners sake and the intimacy shared in sex itself. Aside, from that good material to wank to-
When it does come to bottoming there are a few exceptions to things that he can really feel. He does like being fingered. Having that more targeted stimulation works for him. Also just really oversized toys he would really enjoy. Like just the stretch + easier to hit his prostate specifically is a big turn on. Again the visuals/set up can really make it. So things like certain roleplay can really do it for him mentally. He can also feel it pretty good when he’s getting fucked on his side
Def has an oral fixation. Probably his favorite thing to do in bed is giving oral sex and rimming. He really likes licking up sweat and semen.
Rapid fire kinks… Istg i didn’t even pick 50% of them bruh. It just came with his character idk we listen and we don’t judge… I try not to judge him myself 😭:
Armpit: self explanatory ig… into other people huffing his and huffing theirs
Underwear: He likes wearing certain underwear before/during sex. Jock straps and women’s panties in particular. He likes being touched over them/fucked in them, cumming in them, and the restriction. He also likes touching over, giving oral over, and making partners cum in theirs… tho he prefers when they specifically are wearing briefs. He also likes huffing them…
Free use: Specifically himself being free use. Has to be with the right partner(s) tho. He is not doing it with just anyone
Roleplay: He likes a wide variety. Might just be for roleplaying partners want might be for himself. Much of it is about his own kinks but also enjoys roleplay most when he gets to be the one receiving
Service: I mean self explanatory. He does like to be the one servicing 80% of the time. With select partners he prefers to be serviced or certain occasions like if it’s part of worshipping or something
Body worship: he likes when partners do it for him and doing it for partners
Brat taming: He likes to be the brat. Usually when he’s drunk or otherwise inebriated
Scat… sigh…: He likes watching men shit and genuinely enjoys being painted during sex alright anyways ignoring that ignoring-
Really into sweat: again uhh self explanatory
Jock/Gym Gay Fetish/Attire: Probably picked this one up while he was playing baseball and from physique mags. Anyways kinda self explanatory. Has a lot of fantasies about having sex in gyms or watching men work out/having sex after a work out. Plus typical gym wear is a turn on for him. If he did have a partner dress up for roleplay this or a suit is winning
Despite his aforementioned kinks, again, he’s very partner centered so he doesn’t really expect partners to engage in any of them and will also engage in partner’s even if they aren’t so much his thing
He is really not that offput by the idea of sex with people with vaginas. It’s more about the person it’s attached to. He has canonically eaten a trans man out before and fingered one another time. He masturbates thinking about it a lot and fantasizes about trying vaginal sex with them. He doesn’t really talk about it much cause A) Why would he B) He’s not sure if that’s taboo or something… Ngl I do think he would feel it a lot more than with anal if he did try it-
He really doesn’t like guys finishing in him. That’s a boyfriend only privilege or select guys he’s really into/feels it would be worth it
When he was younger he had that wanting to call men daddy phase. Def got really over it once he had his own kids and also just the guy he would do it with was so not worth it 😭
He takes a lot of pleasure in knowing his partner’s body. He makes it a point to try to learn even hookup’s
He does really enjoy wearing women’s clothes/being dolled up while bottoming. I wouldn’t say it’s so much a fetish as a confidence thing. Like he just wants to feel sexy in bed is that such a crime
As far as receiving sex acts it definitely depends on the partner for if he likes oral sex or hand jobs most. Like Darry he knows really hates giving oral so he strongly prefers handjobs for him.
It’s very hard for John to enjoy sex if his partner isn’t enjoying it even more. It’s part of why he enjoys masturbating most. Cause he can take care of himself more selfishly
His sexual fantasies are almost always about pleasuring other people
Lives and dies by the phrase “bottoms are always right” he expects that treatment too if he is the one bottoming
His service kink 100% came from starting cruising and people always assuming he was gonna be a top because of his race let’s be real. But he was really hesitant about going all the way, so guys would have him go down on them a lot without getting him off after too. So he kinda just developed a taste/fetish for that role. In a modern AU he would probably still prefer siding but bottoming more than topping and would want to be the one serviced 90% of the time
He doesn’t often ask partners to get him off at all. He typically waits for them to ask/do it and sometimes he really would rather do it himself. But when he does ask, he simply asks if they will “take care” of him
He’s really big into making out. He is also the type to like a lot of tongue and really deep kisses… also to be sucking face. We can’t all be perfect ig…
Likes really drawn out sex when he can have it. Yk like LOTS of foreplay and edging. His partners often have to beg for it. He only does that when they really have the time and patience tho. Otherwise he will take mercy and speed it up to a more normal pace
Likes really sensual sex and aftercare. Both giving and receiving it he appreciates. He himself does enjoy men being rough with him during sex but he doesn’t like being rough with men unless it’s for certain kinks they like,
Always prefers coconut oil as lube
Because he’s again pretty partner centered, things def kinda depend on who his partner is. Yeah Darry is like what i wrote him for but like why stop there yk 💚
He’s really into bears/hunks/otters. He likes them hairy and/or tall/muscular/fat. So tbh he’s at attention for people that fit that in general. I would go into detail here but he wouldn’t like me airing him out 😭 Like yep scat fine but not this ok. Also because of that preference he presented a lot more masculine than he was comfortable cause like he knew if would really cut down the pool of men that would want to be topped or serviced by him if he wasn’t also masc
Hmm I’m calling it here I suppose 🚶🏽➡️
