☠ What does someone have to do for an instant unfollow from you?
✂ A fandom that you feel isn't open and accepting?
✖ How has Tumblr RP changed since you started?
☠ what does someone have to do for an instant unfollow from you ?
this has sort of changed over the years. it used to be pushiness. i'm very up front about how i am total ass at ooc chitchat. i've had people take that personally and legitimately wanted me to apologize for not talking to them. buuut, lately, i think the thing that turns me off from a partner the most.. the whole purity culture and thinking they have the right to dictate what i write or who i write it with. there's something so inherently icky about that to me. not only do i unfollow for it, i'll block a bitch for it. i can't stomach someone trying to shove their morality down my throat in or out of roleplay.
✂ a fandom that you feel isn't open and accepting ?
there was a time when this would have unanimously been the marvel fandom. the first time i wrote bucky was back in 2015/16 and i couldn't get a foot in the door to save my life. i was also very insecure about how i wrote him then, too, though. now ? i can't say i feel like any fandom is any more or less open than another. i'm a confident writer now, however. i know some of them come with a whole shit ton of caveats and it always depends on the muse you bring to the party. all my kudos to people writing ocs specifically in a fandom cause some of the rules i've read about how those are received ? woof.
✖ how has tumblr rp changed since you started ?
i started writing on tunglr back in 2012 sooo... what's an easy way to say completely ? it used to be plain ass font, single spaced, 100x100 icons and that was that. usually in an rpg, too. and there's something i sort of miss about the basic nature of that style of rp. where the focus was always the writing. don't get me wrong, i love some pretty graphics and aesthetics can make your world go round if you're into them. but people are way too hung up on making things fancy these days. you do you, that's my opinion, but try to remember what brought you to the table to begin with. and making someone feel lesser because they aren't obsessed with graphics and formatting ? not cute behavior.