Jan 31
there is no experience that better sums up how it feels to be an atheist in an ultra-Christian family than when you have any sort of accomplishment and people “congratulate” you by insisting you need to go to church with them and thank God for “handing” you such a blessing that you totally did not work your ass off for …
#and get extremely offended when you say ‘no’ at them insisting you thank god#I’m getting very tired of this#like I love my family but they make it so simple to understand why people go no contact for religious reasons#we just are not operating on the same plane of life there is no coherence here#this is just insufferable#like not a single comment or compliment toward me as a person ever it’s always about a deity I do not believe in#like I don’t do anything to ask for this why can you not have any personality traits outside of your religion…#just jarring
