Darui and Karin headcanons for them with an s/o who punishes themselves physically and/or mentally for making mistakes, big or small?
☰ Darui
■ Immediately shows concern for you the first time he witnesses you punishing yourself in anyway, even if it’s just talking about yourself negatively because he won’t want you damaging your self esteem or blaming yourself for even the tiniest of set backs or failures. He’ll quickly step in and try to focus your attention on something else or talk about what happened and try to help you with advice or coping better.
■ Will be greatly concerned if you punish yourself physically whether it’s you intentionally hurting yourself physically or neglecting yourself such as skipping a meal he’ll be concerned and upset. But he won’t scold you or get upset with you for this behavior instead he is very understanding and calm about it but treats it seriously but he’s more concerned about helping you through it and helping you to handle mistakes and failures in a better and healthier way.
■ He can be a little forward and even a little aggressive about stopping you if he sees you hurting yourself physically, grabbing your hands or stopping you physically from hurting yourself in any way because he won’t be able to stand seeing or knowing that you hurt yourself like that and he will need to stop you immediately just from instinct but he will apologize for being aggressive with stopping you especially if he unintentionally scares or startles you by doing it.
■ Once he learns about this habit of beating yourself up over mistakes or failures he will keep a very close eye on you and do his best to help you find other means of expressing your disappointment or frustrations for failing at something. He will be very observant to make sure you do not continue to hurt yourself in any way and he will be very supportive and comforting over it the entire time.
☰ Karin
■ Can lose her temper a little too quickly because she will not like seeing or hearing you treating yourself badly or even talking about yourself negatively, and she will stop you immediately if she sees you hurting yourself in any way for any reason. She can get quite upset about it as well scolding you for it and complaining about how that’s no way to handle making a mistake especially when it’s a minor mistake.
■ Though she is quick to lose her temper over the matter she does calm down rather easily and may even apologize profusely for being too hard on you over it, not wanting you to be angry with her. she will come around and become more comforting and helpful, wanting to help you find a different method for dealing with mistakes that you make and wanting to talk things out thoroughly with you and learn more about why you think you should punish yourself for mistakes, feeling like the more she knows about your thought process and reasoning on the matter the better she can help you.
■ She is nothing but loving and supportive towards you when you do happen to fail and she watches you closely whenever you do make a mistake, wanting to jump in and talk with you and work things out without you hurting yourself in any way. Distracting you the best she can with other activities and topics to try and keep you from doing anything unsafe. She is also very positive and really compliments and praises you for successes and accomplishments.
■ Will encourage the idea of seeking counseling over the matter even together because she will be very supportive and want you to get help and feels like counseling could offer more insight to how or why this became your go to when you made a mistake and feeling like they could offer good insight and suggestions for coping with failures in a better way.














