#kathuku

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I honestly hope that whatever you think you like is actually what you like and not what you have been programmed into liking.

~k~

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HOW TO BE CAREFREE.

1.Observe.Sit quietly one day and look at people just being in their element.Everyone is going through stuff, everyone thinks they are the stars!So don't even think for a second they remember your outfit or even care about what you do,say or think.(unless it affects them directly)

2.Live your life. We have Thirty smths who still don't know how to love their lives or what "their lives" look like.Thats okay, you're not alone.But you better get out of your head.And be where your feet are! EXPERIENCE, EXPLORE,ENJOY.

3.Consume less. Consume less content about other peoples lives unless you are actually seeking inspiration.For something you are doing in the next 30 minutes tops.Avoid being a mirror or copycat or societies expectations.Live life,be you,be true!! Authentic!!So consume less than you produce and creative.We feel much better as we serve!!With who we are!Not caring what people think.

4.NO ONE CARES.

5.NO ONE EVER KNOWS THE CURRENT YOU, UNTIL YOU LET THEM IN ON IT. You can show up as a different person everyday.Only you control it.

~k~

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Our minds forget stuff easily.Record yourself with the people you love , enjoying time together.We get to relive the love,the joy the experience and remember why we chose them in the first place.

~k~

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NOTE TO SELF.

1.You need a Fuck You account.Everyone does.Make your own money.You should be able to get some space from that man,but now you can't because you have no resources to take some time off by yourself.

2.Only care about what you have control over.The fact that he follows bare booty girls on IG...and likes photos of girls that don't even look like you,but does not want you to post anything,is not your problem or your fault.Leave him be himself.

3.Allow people to be themselves.Rude,kind,romantic however the people around you,in this case,your partner is,you can never ever change him.Once trash,always trash.

4.Sometimes take some time away from them.Fr!!Sometimes they are the only ones benefiting from your presence and they just drain you or make you a shadow of yourself.Know yourself and know how to make yourself good by yourself.

5.Be logical.What you see,is what you get.You will not find anything different.Just because you hope for it doesn't mean you will get it.

6.Find a hobby.Save yourself from your pettiness and your Neuro divergent self.Find peace in yourself.Focus on the positive things and the positive things only.Think positive.Kill any negative thoughts before they find room in your life.

7.Just because he says it doesn't mean he means it.Be for real,you are not immune from the hurt of the world or the pain of this word.Bad people are still alive and they might pass your path.Realism and Delusion do complement each other!Be stoic but somehow have so much faith in yourself it looks delusional.

~k~

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When you say to a guy "I couldn't care less",and mean it.You make him wonder.😂💀.

So learn to care only where care is given.Care less,where they care less.You are not the river that never runs dry,you too need to be quenched.🫂You are not superhuman.

~k~

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THE STAGES OF LIFE.

It's a totally unpopular opinion but I do wish we could normalize the stages of life.Let kids be kids.Allow them to dream and believe anything.Let them dress as kids.Let them have an imaginary friend.They don't need to know about boyfriend and girlfriend.Allow them to believe in a world full of good things.Let kids thrive in their childhood.

Let teenagers be teenagers allow them to be curious.Let them make mistakes and be there to get them back on track.Let teenagers be teens and learn new things.They don't have to be parents best friends and know everything about your failed marriages or your dusty husband.They don't need to know how you are broke and how they made you sacrifice 'everything' on earth for them.Stop the trauma dumping on teenagers,they are just older kids who think they are grown up.They are not adults.

Young adults are just young adults.Mkst of which are still in school learning.Dependent on you for your love and care.Let them be that.First born or not,they are not assistant parents they are their own person.They should be let to explore their lives as they take control of themselves.They are the new graduates,the new people in the work force.They are the new young parents.They are the newly weds.

And then adults should be sure to adult peacefully until they need to rest and retire .Basically the problem with society came up with the children,toddlers,being dressed up as young adults.Being sexualized.Being exposed in such a manner.Its a beauty to see the radical change and development in the world.But let us be sure to maintain the safe haven for all these children to thrive in their imagination,creativity,their innate joy,contentment and just enthusiasm of life.

We have adults who can attest to never having been kids in their lives,ever.That has to be traumatizing.Adults blaming parents for being exposed to traumatic experiences and information at a very young age.That they never loved,they never dreamt,they never hoped for better.Their dreams were killed even before they were forged.

As a parent,make it your duty to let your child be whatever they are.A child,a teen,young adult,adult, hell you maybe even have a senior(Hahaha).Just let people be.And let life take it's course.No complications.

~k~

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I want to win,to fail,to be happy,to cry,to speak,to be silent,I want to live and experience life and at the end of it all know I tried everything I could.And experienced everything I could.

~k~

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How easily I forget how bad they made me feel is crazy.So I didn't love them that much?