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JLP Area Council 1 "Truth Matters" Public Meeting

JLP Area Council 1 "Truth Matters" Public Meeting

Join the Jamaica Labour Party’s Area Council One for the first in a series of public meetings bringing government representatives directly t

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Post from Jamaica Politics Uncovered 2.0

BREAKING NEWS: East Portland.. Isat Buchanan keep football match and vendors were being charged $5,000 per day to sell at the venue. Big pro

[bymeraki]

I started searching for flaws in other people the same way I do in myself. Then I zoom out and realize that, despite all those flaws, I still think they’re beautiful. This helps me realize that I'm probably not actually that bad-looking, I just can't zoom out from my own flaws.

[colepaxton]

Why dopamine will never stop being fascinating!!

·— Dopamine is not the pleasure chemical. That is the most widespread neuroscience misconception in popular culture. Dopamine is the anticipation and seeking chemical. It fires before the reward. Not during it. The wanting, not the having.

·— This means the scroll is generating dopamine continuously because the next thing might be good and that might is doing all the work. The reward doesn't have to arrive to keep the loop running. The possibility is enough.

·— Dopamine and opioids do completely different things. Dopamine gets you to seek. Opioids make the getting feel good. You can have extremely high wanting with rapidly diminishing liking. This is addiction. But it's also just Tuesday on social media.

·— The dopamine system learns from prediction errors. When something is better than expected it fires strongly. When something is exactly as expected it barely fires. When something is worse than expected it dips. It is fundamentally a system about surprise, not pleasure.

·— Variable reward schedules, unpredictable reinforcement, produce the highest rates of dopamine activity and the most compulsive behavior. This is why slot machines are the most addictive gambling format and why the infinite scroll is specifically designed the way it is.

·— Boredom is the dopamine system looking for stimulation. The discomfort of boredom is that seeking drive with nowhere to go. Sitting with boredom is literally training the system to tolerate lower stimulation levels. This is why it's so hard and also genuinely worth doing.

·— Cold exposure, intense exercise, creative achievement, and meaningful work all produce dopamine responses without the dependency cycle that digital stimulation creates. These sources strengthen the baseline rather than depleting it.

·— The phrase dopamine detox is neurologically imprecise but the intuition behind it is real. Reducing high-stimulation inputs allows the system to recalibrate toward baseline sensitivity. The flat first few days are the recalibration happening.

[colepaxton]

Purpose Advice!!

~ Purpose is reverse-engineered from what pulls you, not discovered through thinking hard about what you should want.

~ The problem in the world that makes you angry is probably pointing at something you care about more than almost anything else. Pay attention to that.

~ Following genuine curiosity honestly is more reliable than following what seems meaningful. Meaning is what the curiosity reveals when you follow it far enough.

~ You don't need to know your purpose to start moving. You need to start moving to find your purpose. The clarity comes from engagement not from preparation.

~ The purpose at twenty-two and the purpose at thirty-five will probably be different and both will be genuine. Stop looking for the permanent final answer.

~ Doing the work seriously before you're certain it's the right work teaches you things about yourself that no amount of reflection can.

~ Purpose doesn't make the work effortless. It makes the difficulty feel worth it. Those are different things and the second one doesn't remove the first.

~ The unconventional purpose is harder to claim in social contexts and often more genuinely yours. Give yourself permission to want what you actually want.

[colepaxton]

Best Habit Advice!!!

❙ Knowing what habits would improve your life and actually building them are two different skills. The second one requires designing for the least motivated version of yourself, not the most.

❙ The reason habits fail isn't always about willpower. It's the gap between the size of the habit you attempted and the size of the resistance that was already there.

❙ Habit failure expands to fill the shame you give it. Most failed habits are recoverable with one return the next day without a speech about what it means about you.

❙ Planning a better routine as a substitute for doing the routine is an expensive habit that is solving nothing and consuming the time and energy the actual habit would have used.

❙ The people with habits you admire are either further into the building phase than you, working in an environment that makes the habit easier, or struggling with different habits entirely.

❙ Making the habit smaller than your resistance is the one strategy that changes everything else. Not one habit. The whole relationship with how you build behavior.

❙ The missed day is not the problem. The missed week that follows the missed day because the streak is broken is the problem. The streak is not the habit. The return is.

❙ Most habit problems are environment problems in disguise. Change the context before you rely on willpower to override it.

[colepaxton]

I recommend choosing one person you've been taking for granted and showing up for them with more presence and intention than you usually manage. Not dramatically. Just with the specific attention that makes someone feel genuinely seen.

Most people give the people closest to them the least of their actual attention. The best focus goes to work, to screens, to people who don't know them well. The people who deserve the most get the remainder. Pick the person. Give them more than the remainder. Let yourself become someone who is genuinely present with the people they love. That presence is what people remember. It is the whole thing.

[luvblogsbyimani]

୨୧ Why make rules if you won't follow them? 🎀

How can others respect the rules when the people who made them don't even follow them themselves?

⋆˚࿔ This happens in schools too. We shouldn't vote for someone just because they're our friend or because they're popular. We should choose leaders who are responsible, accountable, and lead by example.

₊˚⊹♡ Let's vote wisely. Choose responsibility, integrity, and accountability—not friendship or popularity.

- luv y’all😽