guide to interacting with kink repulsed people, from a kink repulsed person
kink repulsed people don't owe you details about their repulsion. if they choose to share, allow them to do so, but if you ask, you are the asshole
if a kink repulsed person chooses to share the details of their repulsion, and you challenge them on those details or make accusations about their character based on what they share, you are the asshole
kink is such a wide umbrella term as to be functionally meaningless and not every kink repulsed person is going to be repulsed by everything under that umbrella
if someone is, however, respect them anyway
if you intentionally expose a kink repulsed person to something you know repulses them, you are the asshole
do not try to "exposure therapy" a kink repulsed person
do not tell a kink repulsed person that kink is allll about individual comfort and consent after trying to nonconsensually "exposure therapy" them
even if they have prior history in the kink community
especially if they have prior history in the kink community
do not call a kink repulsed person's interests, habits, or relationship styles a kink
for that matter, do not call a sex repulsed person's interests, habits, or relationships sex either, no matter how much you've """broadened the definition"""
if a kink repulsed person calls their own interests, habits, or relationship styles a kink, please refer to point 1 and kindly shut up about it
respecting people isn't difficult you just refuse to do it
