ks rant
I feel like anytime you try to discuss Sangwoo and Bums relationship or suggest that their is love or attraction between them there are a bunch of people who scream in unison that Sangwoo is abusive and that KS fans are stupid. Their relationship is waaayyyy to complex to just be interpreted as abusive. Sangwoo is abusive and everyone is aware of that, that doesnt mean his only motive is to abuse Bum and that there is no chance that attraction and love is possible. KS is fiction and you are not ruining real peoples lives or supporting real abusive relationships bcuz you interpret KS in your own way. Its up to every individual how they want to interpret KS and Sangwoo and Bums relationship. Shipping Bum with happiness and Sangwoo with jail would be the ideal and most healthy solution if KS wasnt fiction, but is it the only realistic and good ending for KS? Not necessarily, just bcuz Sangwoo goes to jail doesnt Bum will become mentally healthy and find love and happiness. And Sangwoo going to jail wont make his victims become alive again. Just bcuz Sangwoo ends his relationship with Bum doesnt mean Bum wont be abused by other people. Both of them are tragic individuals who have never experienced love or even have chance to ever find love. If there is love between them, then that might be the only love they will ever experience. Sangwoo and Bum are not "normal" mentally healthy people who experience emotions the same way other people do. They will never become like normal people and love each other in a normal and healthy way- that doesnt mean that emotions of love isnt possible. KS is not a black and white story where the good guys win and the bad guys lose, and it will never probably never be- thats why everyone can interpret it in their own way. KS is fiction and every interpretation is valid and okay. There is no reason to force other people to view KS the same way you do, because people will always have different views and opinions about KS since KS is a emotional rollercoaster. Trying to force other people to view or hate KS is abusive and mean in itself -.-
